Ms Melissa

[russianfbbfan]

She still owes me 100$, but I am fine to donate them to her. What is really concerning that she posted a couple of times a trip to my city but when I contacted her she told me "or, I don't know if I come".
Smells like modus operandi similar to "Mighty She Hulk" aka "Deposit scam".
That's a pity -I had such amazing experiences with ms Melissa.

Hi russianfbbfan.  Thank you for sharing.  Question did you try asking Ms Melissa to return the $100?  Another question.  Would you be willing to share your She Hulk scam experience with this forum?

With Ms Melissa the situation is as follows: we planned a session in March 2020 and she canceled it over COVID -fully understandable.
When she came again a couple of years later she offered me time I can't do.
And the last couple of times when I saw that she posted a trip to my city she answered that "I don't know if I come". And last time specifically he schedule really looked like "deposit vacuum" ...there is no sense to schedule so many cities for a day one after another.
So I never specifically asked her to return the deposit, hoping to reschedule.

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[bruce321]

With Ms Melissa the situation is as follows: we planned a session in March 2020 and she canceled it over COVID -fully understandable.
When she came again a couple of years later she offered me time I can't do.
And the last couple of times when I saw that she posted a trip to my city she answered that "I don't know if I come". And last time specifically he schedule really looked like "deposit vacuum" ...there is no sense to schedule so many cities for a day one after another.
So I never specifically asked her to return the deposit, hoping to reschedule.

The fact that she's got your deposit with your approval, has offered to see you, and has done a lot of makeup sessions recently is proof that she's trying to honor her obligations. If you want to DM me and give me your city, I'll poke her with a stick.

You're right though, the city per day schedule doesn't make any sense to me either. I've talked to her about it. If she doesn't get enough interest, she cancels the date, though I am aware of cases where she's followed through and lost money. I've told her that part of her problem is she needs to allocate more time per stop to give guys a larger scheduling window and provide a buffer in case she gets hung up traveling.

She actually took my advice, and will be in Philly and Secaucus this week, multiple days. Unfortunately, she posted the dates last minute so I'm hoping guys in the area do see it and are able to take advantage, because it's to everyone's benefit if she's not on the move constantly.

[busthemus2003]

I'm in a similar boat. Had a covid cancellation and am getting gradual payments that's started early this year. About 30% refunded so far so hope it keeps coming. I love seeing the lady and hope we get another chance inAustralia.

[LAJeff]

Just chiming in to you all: I had scheduled a time (10pm), then accepted a proposal to change the start time to 11pm, then agreed to a start time of 11:15 pm, then notified Ms Melissa I was ready and in the lobby at 11:15 p.m.  She responded another 15 minutes.  I waited another 15 minutes - crickets!  I waited another 15 minutes - nothing.

At 11:48 p.m., I e-mailed: "Abort"
At midnight, she wanted me to come to the room.
Had I shown up at midnight, I hate to imagine how diminished the effort would have been - she would want to go to bed; I would want to get home. 
I really did have anxiety waiting around the LAX hotel the way I was, carrying the cash I had.
I also am not sure, but have some confidence in myself: How long is a guy supposed to wait on a girl?  I do not ever do dom / sub stuff; I refer to no mortal woman as a creature worthy of disrespecting me or my time.
I suppose Ms Melissa is shocked I would not keep on waiting.  Perhaps I taught her a lesson. Perhaps she thinks I am crazy.
I did blow some bucks on parking and on the water she wanted, but I cannot believe she lost out on a lot of cash (2 hrs scheduled) so that she can tell me another 15 minutes when she meant 45 minutes.
To those people willing to wait 45 minutes on a girl - please show some self respect!

[jbeast]

Logical. Understandable. The way you describe it, you made a decision with the head on your shoulders and not the one between your legs. You weighed the woman's obvious charms versus her well-documented reputation.

[e_honda]

Perhaps I taught her a lesson.

She's not capable of learning. Same habits she's always had.

[russianfbbfan]

With Ms Melissa the situation is as follows: we planned a session in March 2020 and she canceled it over COVID -fully understandable.
When she came again a couple of years later she offered me time I can't do.
And the last couple of times when I saw that she posted a trip to my city she answered that "I don't know if I come". And last time specifically he schedule really looked like "deposit vacuum" ...there is no sense to schedule so many cities for a day one after another.
So I never specifically asked her to return the deposit, hoping to reschedule.

The fact that she's got your deposit with your approval, has offered to see you, and has done a lot of makeup sessions recently is proof that she's trying to honor her obligations. If you want to DM me and give me your city, I'll poke her with a stick.

You're right though, the city per day schedule doesn't make any sense to me either. I've talked to her about it. If she doesn't get enough interest, she cancels the date, though I am aware of cases where she's followed through and lost money. I've told her that part of her problem is she needs to allocate more time per stop to give guys a larger scheduling window and provide a buffer in case she gets hung up traveling.

She actually took my advice, and will be in Philly and Secaucus this week, multiple days. Unfortunately, she posted the dates last minute so I'm hoping guys in the area do see it and are able to take advantage, because it's to everyone's benefit if she's not on the move constantly.

Bro, she posted 5 cities in 6 days again, lol.

[Bulklover]

I saw that she was in LA . . . and she's been on my radar for a loooong time, but . . . even as I occasionally dip my pinkie toe back into the Lady in the Lake, all of the above content is why I'm simply going to wait on my Sept. date with Goddess Lauren.  And thank you to all for your illuminating posts.

[bruce321]

To those people willing to wait 45 minutes on a girl - please show some self respect!

She kept the lines of communication open. There was no deposit kept. She was where she said she would be. And there's a definitive ending - she invited you up 45 minutes late. Anyone with a decent number of sessions under their belt has experienced this. I've certainly spent an hour or two waiting in parking lots when a woman's schedule shifts. Maybe you're new at this, but nothing about what you've described justifies the hyperbole, it's more of an inconvenience. That being said, I wish it had worked out for you.

[bruce321]

Bro, she posted 5 cities in 6 days again, lol.

And? I'm a northeast guy. Might make sense for her in that region. While I'm still encouraging her to do longer stays in larger population centers, she's got her own process. Again, what you're seeing is common practice for sessionettes. You have to post the cities in order to gauge interest. If there's no takers, the city gets dropped and the schedule changes.

[LAJeff]

If I really understood the 45 minutes of waiting ahead of time, I agree that things could / should be different.  The 11pm was pushed to 11:15 and I was not interested in consenting for a start time much after that. It was a late weeknight being pushed further and further back, coupled with the "15 more minutes" routine can be tough to bear.  Yes: She did not get a deposit.  In my dealings with her (for scheduling), I did reveal my reference and I have done sessions for years. Let us not forget: Had I given a deposit and I showed up 45 minutes late, what would happen?  We all know that it would not be made up by the session provider.   I consider reciprocity important in keeping a perspective of what is just.  Additionally, I was there on time. 

Yes - she did not get a deposit.  Like every session provider, the claim is "if I have to cancel, the deposit will be refunded." This is the promise of everyone as far as I know.  I cannot imagine a provider having a different policy made.  Had I given a deposit then I just abandoned the meeting spot after waiting 45 minutes, I believe that the session provider must realize that the extended wait is the functional equivalence of "it needs to be rescheduled due to the provider."

I lost over an hour of my time driving round trip.  I know she lost time too in e-mailing me and she said she was getting ready (which I am not going to doubt).  If she is going to tell herself that she could have scheduled someone else, I am not sure she had a willing attendee.  I am not sure her willing attendee would have waited as she expected me to wait.  I am not sure this uncertain person would have fought for the deposit back or not. This is as speculative as it comes.  Based on her delay to schedule me, I sense she had no other person.

After more than 30 minutes waiting, I alerted her that I was going to "abort" and still was checking my phone while driving out and getting on the highway.

[bruce321]

If I really understood the 45 minutes of waiting ahead of time, I agree that things could / should be different.

What you just said sounds much more reasonable without the hyperbole. I've still got the same take on it, but I get why you left. I did briefly speak to her and if I understood correctly, though she had clients earlier, that wasn't the cause of the delay. She didn't clarify and I didn't pry, but I got the impression that she was trying to clean up some sort of mess or resolve an issue with the room. She wasn't trying to string you along with the 15 more minutes, she was suffering delays and relaying them to you. It sounds to me like an unfortunate sequence of events and communication.

[Bulklover]

As the outsider looking in, I'm going to try to provide some perspective. I think I'm leaning in Bruce's direction on this one. I have two examples.  First, (and this was long before deposits became de rigueur) about fifteen years ago, I had an appointment with Vilma Caez. On the drive up to LA from Orange County (almost always a giant suck pill . . . which eventually was one of the reasons I retired; driving to and from LA was not worth it . . . at all), she called and said she would have to put me off two hours. I couldn't make that scheduling work, even though I was more than half way to LA. I thanked her for the call and we agreed to reschedule, which we did, and the next day, I had a session I will take to my deathbed. Because I got a definitive window, I was okay with it . . . appreciated it actually.

Another time, I was in Vegas and had a session with Tazzie. This was about 2008. She was booked into the Stratosphere. Now Tazzie and I have known one another since 1992, and have always gotten along great.  However, on this occasion I was getting "just another half hour." I got that four times. Now, I adore Tazzie, always have, but after two hours in the bar soaking my whiskers, I finally called to tell her I had to go and got her voice mail.  I headed out and twenty minutes later when I got to my hotel (after midnight), I had an angry message on my phone that I bailed on her!!  Well, I got pissed and called her and we argued about it with no resolution . . . later, we worked it out and all was forgiven.  Now, IF she'd called and said, "It's going to be another two hours before I can see you, I might have gone with it," but the death by increments was not, and is not, something I'm willing to tolerate . . . okay, you give me a shot at Julia Foery, and I'll wait in the bar for eight weeks.  LOL!!  Anyway, my .02.

[Bulklover]

As the outsider looking in, I'm going to try to provide some perspective. I think I'm leaning in Bruce's direction on this one. I have two examples.  First, (and this was long before deposits became de rigueur) about fifteen years ago, I had an appointment with Vilma Caez. On the drive up to LA from Orange County (almost always a giant suck pill . . . which eventually was one of the reasons I retired; driving to and from LA was not worth it . . . at all), she called and said she would have to put me off two hours. I couldn't make that scheduling work, even though I was more than half way to LA. I thanked her for the call and we agreed to reschedule, which we did, and the next day, I had a session I will take to my deathbed. Because I got a definitive window, I was okay with it . . . appreciated it actually.

Another time, I was in Vegas and had a session with Tazzie. This was about 2008. She was booked into the Stratosphere. Now Tazzie and I have known one another since 1992, and have always gotten along great.  However, on this occasion I was getting "just another half hour." I got that four times. Now, I adore Tazzie, always have, but after two hours in the bar soaking my whiskers, I finally called to tell her I had to go and got her voice mail.  I headed out and twenty minutes later when I got to my hotel (after midnight), I had an angry message on my phone that I bailed on her!!  Well, I got pissed and called her and we argued about it with no resolution . . . later, we worked it out and all was forgiven.  Now, IF she'd called and said, "It's going to be another two hours before I can see you, I might have gone with it," but the death by increments was not, and is not, something I'm willing to tolerate . . . okay, you give me a shot at Julia Foery, and I'll wait in the bar for eight weeks.  LOL!!  Anyway, my .02.

Oopsie! I meant Jeff!!

[Bernie1212]

I have seen Ms Melissa three times now.  The first time there was a bit of delay like the was mentioned, that we started about an hour late.  After that, there has been zero hiccups. 

She is one of the great providers I have seen. She is freaking awesome.  Sweet person, phenominal physique, her scheduling may be bit and miss...but when you get her one on one, it is the things of dreams.