Session etiquette: payments & tips

[Jbuzz]

Do you pay upfront (what remains after the deposit) - or at the end?
(I'm thinking to get the payment done at the beginiing, not to mess with it at the end)

Do you usually tip? Is it common?

[Jbuzz]

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[Bernie1212]

I always bring the money in an envelope,  as we greet and settle in I make sure she sees the envelope and where I place it. 

I generally don't tip on the first session.  If I enjoyed my time and will see her again, I will tip on the following sessions based on the previous session.  If for whatever reason I don't think I'll see the girl for a while, I may buy something for her off of her Amazon wishlist if she has one.

[boyofwinter]

Very few will continue with the session if they're not fully paid immediately when you walk in the door. As for tipping, for most of my sessions I include bonuses one of which I figure she's guaranteed to hit, so six of one more or less. Many sg ladies link their amazon lists so gift giving is simple enough.

[MixedFighter99]

Do you pay upfront (what remains after the deposit) - or at the end?
(I'm thinking to get the payment done at the beginiing, not to mess with it at the end)

Do you usually tip? Is it common?

I always bring cash in a white envelope that I leave on a table or desk discretly soon after she opens the door.

And not only do I tip but I also try to bring something for them they might need if they are traveling. Food is often a big hit and with a few ladies, cigarettes. I stay away from flowers from traveling as they are just going to get trashed. 

[Prophaniti]

Always pay at the beginning

I've never tipped, but some of them I've taken for dinner or beers. Depends on how well I like them and if we have some sort of relationship

[crazycrazy]

Tipping a session provider is like tipping a psychiatrist or a lawyer. These women value their time and set their rates accordingly. I have paid extra when I consider a woman to have undervalued her time compared to other providers, and often given gifts of perfume or flowers. Yes mixedfighter99, flowers are going to be trashed. That's how they always end up.

[boyofwinter]

I have brought flowers but only if I know it's a long stay, another 3-5 days, I also ask first because some ladies either have a preference or a bad reaction to certain ones.

[Chainer★]

Do you pay upfront (what remains after the deposit) - or at the end?
(I'm thinking to get the payment done at the beginiing, not to mess with it at the end)

Do you usually tip? Is it common?

No need to tip but if you pay upfront be careful, a member in the following thread reported that he paid upfront to Mirage and then she asked him to pay again at the end of the session 

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[Creamnant]

Upfront too, with tips and gifts.
Have any of you already used Revolut (or equivalent)? We don't need to travel with several hundred $/€. And there are no exchange fees. It's 2 advantages for us and for them.

[jbeast]

I haven't seen anyone new in quite awhile, but I've had a few instances of paying early with a woman I knew quite well, since retired. She lived in a different city and I'd see her two, three times a year and would talk on the phone. She needed cash for some charity dinner so she gave me her checking account info and I deposited it in my city. She nicely applied it to our next session.

From then on it was a ritual for me to pay 2/3rds of her tribute a week or two before seeing her. At the beginning of each session I'd kneel in front of her, and one by one gave her the balance in $20 bills. She loved that. I did too because it was less cash for me to travel with

As for gifts, when she visited my hotel I'd order a bottle of champagne and a fruit & cheese platter. We might nibble at it before or after our time together. I took her to lunch or dinner a few times, and if she wanted something special to wear for my roleplay scenes, things like gold backless high heels or a leopard print bikini, I'd buy it.

It's great to have a sessionette or Mistress (and she definitely was the latter) that you know well and have a great chemistry with. I miss her.

[clay99]

Paying tips is pointless from my experience, ladies won't remember you, they deal with so many clients they can't keep track unless you are a long-term client.
I tend to buy chocolates (Ferrero Rocher), fruits (Blueberries/Raspberries/Strawberries and mini perfume sets and put it all in a small red glittery giftbag.

I do think if you book later appointments and you are the last client there's a chance the lady will ask you out for dinner. Vikingqueen told me the next time I see she would be happy to take me to the gym for a workout and then have dinner afterwards. Amazonranger wanted me come with her for a meal in Wembley but it was late and had to go home.

[Bulklover]

I have never tipped, and always present an envelope right as I enter. But one thing I have done and some of you might find this foolish . . . several of my favorites who I had seen repeatedly jumped, without prompting, directly onto Richard, surprising the hell out of me!  Of course, this was a most welcomed and unexpected pleasure, and my response was to up my contribution the next time we scheduled.  And this tactic seemed to make FS a regular part of our landscape; perhaps my upping my contribution was unnecessary but given THAT kind of access seemed, to me, to merit an increase in the $$ amount, and in any event, I was happy to do it.  Keep in mind, this was a decade or more in the past when the median going rate was about $300.  Sessions have gotten so pricey and my regulars have mostly retired, that using the above strategy now seems less practical, but who knows??  In any event, as enter my dotage, and as my last breath escapes me, the joy they provided me will be of great comfort!   

[Boselectah]

Before paying and proceeding, I pause for a brief moment to assess that she is sober, lucid and "as advertised". This can take me literally seconds or slightly longer if I feel there's something "off" about her or the venue. If I need a moment to think I hop about and sheepishly ask to have a quick piss in an urgent/pleading voice.

This has been my M.O, since a fairly shit meeting with a lady who was clearly high on something but I allowed myself to be drawn in by her calves and ignored the big red flags in front of me.

Lord knows what these envelopes are about? I count it out into her hand with a smile. Next time, I must remember to peek in the bin and count the envelopes and get a sense of the traffic she's handling.......

[jbeast]

To Bulklover I'm in my "dotage" now too. Most of my favorites are retired. Last muscle session was with a wonderful dominatrix/bodybuilder we all might know & she gave me a break on the price.

[jbeast]

Forgot Boselectah! In my experience saw at least 3 ladies who were either high or way old. I didn't feel safe. This was a long time ago so I gave all or part of the tribute immediately and got it of there.