SESSIONS QUESTION

GreenMile · November 30, 2022, 03:53:46 AM

Hey Brothers, I have a question for ya. What are the pros and cons for paying for a wrestler to come out to your city/state just to wrestle? I mean, that is a hell of a lot of money just for one freaking session regardless of the type of session. I don't get it! Somebody help your boy out here. LOL!

GreenMile · November 30, 2022, 03:53:46 AM

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boyofwinter · November 30, 2022, 04:43:11 AM

The pros are being sure you get to meet her, which is a bigger factor than you might think (the alternative, just take a day and fly to see her, might not be an option for some people for whatever their reasons). You'll almost certainly spend much more than 1 hour with her, be able to watch her workout, join her for meals without paying for that time (besides the check) and other things that can happen during getaways. As for the cons there's just the one but it's the completely obvious one, you might totally not click with each other in person/she might not be able to do something you assumed as a primary reason for wanting to meet her in the first place, etc.

Prophaniti · November 30, 2022, 05:24:51 AM

I also look at the time involved

Yes its a lot of money for.. lets say a 2 hour session, but compare that to how much you'd spend going to them PLUS the entire time you have to spend for it

evanyory · November 30, 2022, 03:58:27 PM

Does it typically follow that when you sponsor a trip you see them more outside the session for things like picking up from airport, lunches/dinners, maybe sightseeing/showing her the city?

evanyory · November 30, 2022, 04:03:45 PM

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Does it typically follow that when you sponsor a trip you see them more outside the session for things like picking up from airport, lunches/dinners, maybe sightseeing/showing her the city?

Hit enter on accident. Or does it depend on the lady. I guess almost fear with sponsoring would be that the lady would do all the things by herself and I'd see her for only the scheduled session time but just pay alot more than usual. Or is that treatment not typical

boyofwinter · November 30, 2022, 06:02:58 PM

It all depends. Have you given her some cash for a plane ticket so she can add your city to her tour or is she coming specifically to visit you, this changes how much she'll make herself available for you.

Bulklover · November 30, 2022, 07:00:48 PM

I've done it twice. But only after a number of in-person sessions when they were visiting my town, and we actually developed a friendship. On both those occasions, it morphed into a night out and a gfe. I would be very hesitant to attempt it under other circumstances for the reasons previously mentioned. I also did it once flying to HER city, but again we'd gotten to know each other well and it turned into both a dinner and a gfe. Memories I'll access on my deathbed.

evanyory · November 30, 2022, 07:32:54 PM

BulkLover, random question but who is that in your profile picture?

FemFlexUSA · November 30, 2022, 08:29:12 PM

Last one I did, she stayed at my house for several days. It was a really cool experience from start-to-finish. I don't want to spill too much tea, but it was totally worth it. It was our first time meeting, we really clicked, but unfortunately, I haven't had occasion to see her again since then (she's east coast, I'm west coast and Europe).

Others I've done were short flights with either same-day or next-day returns. If I didn't know her well, I put her in a hotel for the night. If I knew her well, she stayed with me.

YMMV, but if you've got a good vibe with someone and spare cash, go for it. If money's an issue, don't.

evanyory · November 30, 2022, 08:49:32 PM

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Last one I did, she stayed at my house for several days. It was a really cool experience from start-to-finish. I don't want to spill too much tea, but it was totally worth it. It was our first time meeting, we really clicked, but unfortunately, I haven't had occasion to see her again since then (she's east coast, I'm west coast and Europe).

Others I've done were short flights with either same-day or next-day returns. If I didn't know her well, I put her in a hotel for the night. If I knew her well, she stayed with me.

YMMV, but if you've got a good vibe with someone and spare cash, go for it. If money's an issue, don't.

Now were you the one who would make the call on the hotel room? Or would you say something like "now that we know each other if you want you can stay with me and avoid the hotel" and then she has the choice.

Basically did you just do what you thought would make them the most comfortable?

FBBMW · December 01, 2022, 02:03:57 AM

I think you have to discuss the expenses for lodging, number of days, flights and how much time you want to pay for.
Don't expect paying expenses to get you all day. You should get some extra time, but some SG might hope to add more sessions.

I think if you are going to host a SG, it should be someone who is recommended, rather than a new SG with no history.

If no travelers go to your area, an alternative if to visit a hot session spot, and schedule multiple sessions with desired SGs who
are in that town on your dates.

GreenMile · December 01, 2022, 04:40:12 AM

I appreciate the responses, bros. Keep it coming! Here is another question to throw at cha....What do these acronyms mean?

1. YMMV
2. GFE

Also what are some other acronyms that ya can teach me? LBVS (Laughing But Very Serious)

nujerz84 · December 01, 2022, 05:44:29 AM

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I appreciate the responses, bros. Keep it coming! Here is another question to throw at cha....What do these acronyms mean?

1. YMMV
2. GFE

Also what are some other acronyms that ya can teach me? LBVS (Laughing But Very Serious)

Your mileage may vary... pretty much what you may get in a session maybe vastly different to what the guy before or after you gets or even what you get normally with that person (for example you usually get certain extras from her but she didn't do it this time). Lots of factors play into it money, you and her connecting well, being a longtime client/customer/supporter, she finds you attractive, maybe she going thru shitty marriage or has a crappy bf, maybe she hasn't had sex in a while etc.

Girlfriend Experience.. it varies based on each woman.

FemFlexUSA · December 01, 2022, 08:57:41 AM

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Last one I did, she stayed at my house for several days. It was a really cool experience from start-to-finish. I don't want to spill too much tea, but it was totally worth it. It was our first time meeting, we really clicked, but unfortunately, I haven't had occasion to see her again since then (she's east coast, I'm west coast and Europe).

Others I've done were short flights with either same-day or next-day returns. If I didn't know her well, I put her in a hotel for the night. If I knew her well, she stayed with me.

YMMV, but if you've got a good vibe with someone and spare cash, go for it. If money's an issue, don't.

Now were you the one who would make the call on the hotel room? Or would you say something like "now that we know each other if you want you can stay with me and avoid the hotel" and then she has the choice.

Basically did you just do what you thought would make them the most comfortable?

There are several factors. My multi-day started as a simple, fly-in session request. My initial plan was for her to fly in one day, rest/hang out that evening, then session the following day and she'd fly out that evening. Her hourly rate was $350 and she offered overnight for $2000. SOLD. I booked the flight, paid a steep deposit (no hesitation, because the communication had been good), booked hotel for one night, and then we kept in good contact until we met.

I think I remember there being a snowstorm involved, but the progression to staying with me was completely organic. We're talking, shopping, cooking, wrestling, etc. It was all so fucking cool.

Normally, it was a matter of logistics. I often had a tight window of time to work with, so it was best to book her a room near the airport, session there, and then depending on flight schedule, I'd either take her directly to the airport or include taxi fare in her compensation. If there was more flexibility, I could book her a room in my town, see her a couple times, and then I'd usually take care of transport. And obviously, if it was a same-day in-and-out, we used the hotel by the airport.

With the exception of the one - who did stay in hotel the first night - the others who stayed at my place were girls I knew very well, so there wasn't even a thought about it. It was just assumed on both sides. I was the only "client" of the one who came most often and we ended up becoming family friends. I don't know what her husband does or does not know. Wild, eh? So, a higher-level friendship is a potential risk! lol

GreenMile · December 01, 2022, 06:24:47 PM

FemFLexUSA, that is wild, bro! I don't know if I could do that or not. You only live once though. LOL!!! I appreciate the responses to my second question, but, I am still waiting for someone to breakdown these acronyms that I requested (as well as other acronyms that might be useful for me). FRFR!!! (For Real For Real)!