Any tips for first session?

[mutahr]

Have recently scheduled my first session! Any tips for an excited but nervous first-timer?

How do things typically go - meet in hotel lobby, at room, shower available afterwards, etc?

[mutahr]

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[Muscluva]

A call or text from the car park to let her know you've arrived, you will not be thanked for being early. Just before your appointment time, sometimes just after, you'll get a text with the room number and directions to the lift (or elevator dependingon which version of English you use.) Go into the hotel, don't stop in the lobby definitely don't speak to the desk just go to the lift, then follow the signs to the room, knock you'll be let in immediately. Say hi, exchange pleasantries and pay; after you've seen the provider several times before and "got to know each other" she may become a bit more trusting about the money on entry. Discuss what you expect and have fun. Then leave as you came in, straight out looking like you know where you're going. Most hotels don't really approve of this type of use of their rooms  although obviously they know it happens, but don't draw attention.

[Polite Society]

 It would help to know which country you live in because the last post makes it sound like the hotels are part of a Police State.  Only small European ones care about visitors.

[liftcarryfan1]

May i ask who it is?  Go showered, trimmed, polite, be a gentlemen

[Prophaniti]

Take a shower before
Use deodorant
Trim your nails, hands and toes
Show up on time
Don't be a creep
Don't ask for anything they've explicitly said they don't do

[FBBMW]

Scan through this folder for a bunch of other same questions. 

Normally you don't meet in the lobby, unless the hotel requires a room key to use the elevator.

The SG usually has to get ready quickly for her next session, so I doubt they want you showering afterwards, unless it's
during Your session time.         

[DCReviews]

You can also ask them in advance if they want you to bring anything for them. Sometimes people who session travel or are on the road for a while and enjoy some gifts or alcohol etc. 

[Lovebiceps98]

Hello everyone! The date of my first session is approaching, and I wanted to know if any of you more experienced had any suggestions for me, thank you

[jbeast]

All the tips here are great.

One I would add, strenuously, is do your research to make sure you are both compatible. DON'T be impulsive. And make the decision with the head on your shoulders and NOT the one between your legs. LOL!

[crazycrazy]

What Prophanti said about preparation is important. You should also dress nicely.

And what jungle beast mentioned is also a key point to consider: session providers have specialized skills. They don't all excell at the services you may prefer. Check what the woman you have booked considers to be her strong suit. You don't ask your tailor to do your gardening, and you don't ask a jujitsu black belt to give you an hour of lift and carry.

[Tiberius]

Be clean be knowledgeable about what she offers and her limits. Communicate your limits. If you absolutely don't want a finger up your bum for example let her know.

[post_punk_skunk]

"Be clean" is underrated advice. Shower, shave, trim your nasty nails, and be respectful and gentlemanly. Don't just start gooning right out of the gate.

[mikem2436]

Always show up fresh showered and clean clothes and if you can, fresh hair cut. Also show up 15 minutes early and when you get there, text them and say you are in the parking lot. It helps them get ready and sometimes you'll get 10 extra minutes. When you go in the hotel, walk with confidence and go to the room and floor. When you get the room, knock and politely say your name. Then when you get inside pay them first and then take a few minutes to discuss what you want. But more importantly have fun and communicate through the session.

[billylong224]

My advice:  RELAX.  be confident, be a gentleman, treat them like the ladies they are.  this has paid dividends many times for me.  ymmv.

billy

[Zenzen]

Congrats on booking your first session!

The biggest piece of advice I can give is: relax and don't put too much pressure on yourself. Most first-timers spend weeks imagining every detail and then realize the session is much more comfortable and natural than they expected.

Every session provider has their own routine, but typically they'll tell you in advance where to meet. Some prefer meeting in the hotel lobby first, while others may ask you to come directly to the room. If you're unsure, don't hesitate to ask beforehand—good communication makes everything easier.

A few general tips:

• Arrive on time.
• Be clear about your expectations and interests before the session starts.
• Respect any boundaries that were discussed beforehand.
• Bring water and don't be afraid to take a moment to settle your nerves.
• Remember that session providers are used to meeting nervous first-timers.

As for practical details like showers, changing facilities, etc., that varies a lot by location and provider. If that's important to you, it's perfectly reasonable to ask in advance so there are no surprises.

Most importantly, try to enjoy the experience rather than worrying about whether you're "doing it right." Everyone was a first-timer once.

Have fun, and let us know how it goes afterward!