How to identify girls who do sessions?

[growthmonster75]

Hey all.  I live in Phoenix.  Every year in September we host a huge bodybuilding show.  For months leading up I'm constantly checking on SG to see if any competitors are game for a session.  Every year, I'm disappointed.  Maybe one competitor lists there, and very rarely a bodybuilder (my preference for muscle worship). I know Muscular Goddess is currently listed, so it's not like the cabinet is empty, but it's agonizing that dozens of girls are in town, and I can identify only one who's into sessions.

Are my expectations out of whack?  Is it silly to think that more than a tiny fraction these women who put so much effort into their physiques would be interested in having men pay out lots of money to worship them in person?

Would it be a bad strategy to identify competitors and DM them in Insta?  What other strategy would you recommend for identifying any FBBs or Physique girls who don't post on SG but are down to session?  I suppose it's a bit like looking for UTR candidates, but these are women in town and in peak physical condition.  They're already ready to flaunt on stage, to cameras, so I wouldn't think it's a stretch they'd also flaunt in person.

Thanks for any feedback.  Love this board.

[growthmonster75]

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[autechre]

Are my expectations out of whack?  Is it silly to think that more than a tiny fraction these women who put so much effort into their physiques would be interested in having men pay out lots of money to worship them in person?

Its only a tiny fraction. The vast majority either don't know such a thing exists or don't want anything to do with it.

[FBBMW]

Occasionally girls not listed in WB or SG are discussed in Saradas. 

There could be a few at the contest that session, but I doubt there are many. 
It must be that most of the girls have a good job, a husband with $ and/or sponsors, so they don't need to get
involved with sessions.   

If they CAM or do sexy stuff on Twitter/Only Fans, they may want to session.   
Mostly we have to rely on SG + WB.     

[boyofwinter]

A couple of points here, most ladies who do sessions still prefer not to at shows for various reasons, amplify that if they were lucky enough to make the stage for the most important show of the year. Several ladies will do sessions but they don't list and must be referred by a friend, guys can lament this but playing the game is more constructive. Personally, I've had good success over the years asking in person by saying hello and tactfully passing an index card.

[Del4]

I think it is worth sending a polite Insta**** DM. I am scheduled to be seeing a bodybuilder here in the UK who does not list and who I politely asked on Insta****. Admittedly it is going to be one of her first sessions, so she was someone who had started having an interest in doing them. Doing it this way though, I think being polite and respectful is the most important thing.
I also imagine that this year with all the issues around Covid and travel, som women would want to wait until closer to the show to post.

[nujerz84]

If they do webcam, skype and/or have done videos of arm wrestling, muscle size comparison with a smaller guy,
lift & carry and of course wrestling then they at least know about the whole fem muscle fetish scene.  Then it pretty following the ladies on social media, if she is very active about her personal life the  you have an idea who maybe open to it especially if they need money.

Having money always helps and/or patronizing ladies on her biceps/webcam..  For me I done lots of sessions, done lots of videos with ladies who don't session so..I have references galore and somewhat known in the scene.

I have 4 UTR's (meaning they don't advertise) 2 are IFBB Pros in NJ/NYC are (though one of them for now is only comfortable with doing them with me) 1 in Southern Cali (Sexy Milf Figure Girl) and 1 ifbb pro in Midwest (Indy)

[xephos]

I think it is worth sending a polite Inst@gram DM. I am scheduled to be seeing a bodybuilder here in the UK who does not list and who I politely asked on Inst@gram. Admittedly it is going to be one of her first sessions, so she was someone who had started having an interest in doing them. Doing it this way though, I think being polite and respectful is the most important thing.
I also imagine that this year with all the issues around Covid and travel, som women would want to wait until closer to the show to post.

Hi Del, sent you a msg but your inbox is full.

[Polite Society]

 Del's always is.
    Nobody's so far talked about making the offer in the initial contact. One visit to free chat on Herbicepscam shows the level of time wasting cheapskates who blow smoke.  Once ladies see you're different from that, you have your foot in the door.  The rest depends on her.

[artax]

During the show- the competitors are pretty busy - good chance they have friends/ boyfriends / family with them- plus they have been dieting and probably don't have a lot of time or energy for sessions if competing - perhaps ones attending the expo and not competing might be more open - I think her biceps cam is probably best - I don't think too many respond to random requests on Twitter or Insta**** unless they openly session

[Del4]

Sorry, just cleared space in my inbox.

I think it is worth sending a polite Inst@gram DM. I am scheduled to be seeing a bodybuilder here in the UK who does not list and who I politely asked on Inst@gram. Admittedly it is going to be one of her first sessions, so she was someone who had started having an interest in doing them. Doing it this way though, I think being polite and respectful is the most important thing.
I also imagine that this year with all the issues around Covid and travel, som women would want to wait until closer to the show to post.

Hi Del, sent you a msg but your inbox is full.

[cjones]

I like to see if they have a onlyfans page. Most ladies pay attention to that. If you tip them via messsges your messages show up first and you can ask them questions. I recommend to be a good fan tip them ask for a custom video. Then ask to Skype and then you can ask them if they session. That's if they have a onlyfans page if not DM on Insta**** and herbiceps is the best way or if they are friends with somebody that you session with you can ask them for a referral.

[nujerz84]

If they do webcam, skype and/or have done videos of arm wrestling, muscle size comparison with a smaller guy,
lift & carry and of course wrestling then they at least know about the whole fem muscle fetish scene.  Then it pretty following the ladies on social media, if she is very active about her personal life the  you have an idea who maybe open to it especially if they need money.

Having money always helps and/or patronizing ladies on her biceps/webcam..  For me I done lots of sessions, done lots of videos with ladies who don't session so..I have references galore and somewhat known in the scene.

I have 4 UTR's (meaning they don't advertise) 2 are IFBB Pros in NJ/NYC are (though one of them for now is only comfortable with doing them with me) 1 in Southern Cali (Sexy Milf Figure Girl) and 1 ifbb pro in Midwest (Indy)

To cosign what cjones said in addition to my earlier post..if they have an Onlyfans and/or Fanwise page thats a potential indicator that they maybe open to sessions with the right offer etc.

[cjones]

Agreed also if you know a person that has a good relationship with the ladies you can ask them if they know. Mostly everybody knows everybody so guys with a lot of experience like Nujerz will know if they do sessions or don't. They will also have UTRs which are some ladies that do sessions but want to stay private. So Nujerz if you can DM me the UTRs are I'll send you a tip which is the right thing to do

[Boselectah]

Seeing them around shows usually means they are depleted, tired and cranky. I would suspect they'd be predisposed to accommodating a familiar client as opposed to seeing a random newbie stranger too.
There is nothing wrong with firing a polite request to any FBB at any time but rather than targeting them at contest time, it's probably better to get on their radar months ahead and try and establish some sort of credibility or familiarity with them.
A few years back , a lady I'd been in casual social media contact with contacted me to tell me she'd qualified for national finals being held near me and offered me a meet with her. I ended up sessioning with her back at her hotel just an hour after she stepped off stage.

[aracnidman]

Hey Nujerz fellow nujerz guy here.  I have a utr pro around here as well.  Wondering if it's the same one?  Maybe we could swap info if not.