Blacklist?

[dogstar]

Is there any way to check if I have been blacklisted (if that even is thing)? A bit of background, I've sessioned with a few women over the years. Never had any sort of incident or issue with payment, timeliness, or behavior. A couple of sessionettes I've seen had even let me know when they were returning to my city. A few years ago I had to take some time away but financial reason. When I attempted to return, I'd either get no reply or replies would stop after an initial back and forth. I've tried reaching out to two of the women I've previously seen. No reply, but they are both retired.

I realize there could be many reasons for breaks in communication - it seems very much part of the industry - but is there a way to check one's standing?

[dogstar]

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[Polite Society]

   People move on if you were away for a couple of years.  Sessionettes go off any guy who stops seeing them. That's a fact.  If the ones you contacted have retired, they're not writing for the hell of it.

[dogstar]

Appreciate the reply. I don't have any expectation of hearing back from retired ladies - understandably so as they're retired not looking for pen pals. My concern is more about recent attempts to book sessions with active sessionettes. I can't seem to get more than one reply before communication stops. This is very different from my initial experience. So that why I'm asking if there is a way to check whatever sort of "client review list"/blacklist might exist.

[Polite Society]

Appreciate the reply. I don't have any expectation of hearing back from retired ladies - understandably so as they're retired not looking for pen pals. My concern is more about recent attempts to book sessions with active sessionettes. I can't seem to get more than one reply before communication stops. This is very different from my initial experience. So that why I'm asking if there is a way to check whatever sort of "client review list"/blacklist might exist.

   Unless you're asking for things in sessions that put women off, you've no reason to worry about this. Sessiongirls runs some kind of blacklist but hard to see how you'd be on it if you are being honest about your interactions.  Maybe you don't commit to a session quick enough for the current crop

[FBBMW]

There have been rumors of a black list in SG.  If there is, we can't see it. 
 
Don't look like you are a time waster, asking for photos when she has a great IG, stats, etc.   
Discuss setting up a session for a date she has posted in your city.           
Some may not respond if we are asking for sexual acts, even though we would settle for more common sessions.

I agree with what Polite said.   

[liftcarryfan1]

There definitely is. Some new dumb girl that SHOULD NOT be on session girls tried to blacklist me and I got a random call from sessiongirls and a random email from someone I don't know.  Good thing is I have women with great reputations who will back me up!

[dogstar]

Thanks everyone for the suggestions. Never waste time and my emails are direct and all business. Same as they were back when I was getting replies and able to book sessions. Something has definitely changed though just not on my side. Sounds like some sort list exists though.

[Polite Society]

Thanks everyone for the suggestions. Never waste time and my emails are direct and all business. Same as they were back when I was getting replies and able to book sessions. Something has definitely changed though just not on my side. Sounds like some sort list exists though.

Why do you even feel you'd be on a blacklist if you never put a foot wrong? It doesn't make sense you'd have this concern. You're doing something that stops them thinking you're serious about booking IF you are asking about listed dates they have.

[dogstar]

A very reasonable question, PS, and I should have included this in the original post. Long story short a former friend found out that I session and I have concerns they may have reached out to one or more of the women I've met with. This would understandably likely not be well received in a industry in which discretion is important. Again, my recent emails have literally been nearly verbatim from when I was receiving replies. Do you know of a way I could check any blacklist?

[Polite Society]

   Name some names of who haven't responded.  Unless the former friend did sessions, how are a guy's words going to carry weight? And if it is a She and she competes/competed or did sessions, you're leaving out a helluva lot of important info.

[dogstar]

I certainly understand why you would think I was leaving out info. From my time on these boards I'd say easily 95% of the time when there is an issue is always comes back to the guy either being a time waster or rude or entitled or trying to haggle. That's just not the case here however. As for what my former friend may or may not have said to any woman I've met with I couldn't say, I suspect any third party contacting a sessionette would certainly be considered a bit weird.

I realize this is all very usual and understand your skepticism. I'm going to hold off on providing names for the moment and see if I get a reply from a recent inquiry. I am just trying to find out if there is a way I can check my info against any blacklist which seems like the fastest way to get to the bottom of this. Again, I appreciate your replies and experience on the scene.

[Polite Society]

I certainly understand why you would think I was leaving out info. From my time on these boards I'd say easily 95% of the time when there is an issue is always comes back to the guy either being a time waster or rude or entitled or trying to haggle. That's just not the case here however. As for what my former friend may or may not have said to any woman I've met with I couldn't say, I suspect any third party contacting a sessionette would certainly be considered a bit weird.

I realize this is all very usual and understand your skepticism. I'm going to hold off on providing names for the moment and see if I get a reply from a recent inquiry. I am just trying to find out if there is a way I can check my info against any blacklist which seems like the fastest way to get to the bottom of this. Again, I appreciate your replies and experience on the scene.

Stop worrying about being blacklisted. It's pointless.

[Bernie1212]

About your only shot is to ask a provider you are friendly with.  Other then that you are S.O.L.

[dogstar]

Unfortunately the ones I was friendly with are retired. I may be S.O.L. as you say. I've got a couple other avenues. Fingers crossed.

[Tiberius]

There definitely is. Some new dumb girl that SHOULD NOT be on session girls tried to blacklist me and I got a random call from sessiongirls and a random email from someone I don't know.  Good thing is I have women with great reputations who will back me up!

What were the emails about? Did they want to inquire with you on why that girl might want to blacklist you?