Sessions/addiction

[lll]

Dear All:

Had a great session yesterday.  Thinking today about having another one.

While I am not poor,  I am not loaded either and probably shouldn't be doing these in the first place given the cost, etc.  Just curious I am assuming that people on this site are not necessarily loaded and probably have a family.  Assuming that's true, how often do people do sessions?

Am even thinking this could be an addiction and was wondering if I should talk to a professional.

Any thoughts (kind) would be appreciated.

Thank you.

[lll]

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[Jackass500]

I just budget for it 6 times a year with one woman. that's $2,400 right there. it's kind of like gambling, if doing it financially bothers you, you shouldn't be doing it

[enoch]

To me, the answer to your question is pretty simple.  If you feel good about doing sessions, that's fantastic.  You're fine.  If you feel bad about them, that's not good and you might want to seek help.  I'm sure many of us have felt like you do at one time or another.  I know this sounds simplistic, but you either get over it or you don't.  If it turns out to be the latter, you should get help.  And yes, it can certainly become a form of addiction, which could cause problems, not the least of which is money problems.

[jimmyray]

When ever I have extra $300 So sometimes twice a month sometimes once a month some times every other month. it all depends.

[nujerz84]

Yes sessions can develop into an addiction...if you have doubt should talk to someone about it.  Especially if it can hurt you financially cause lets face it they are not cheap.

[Carter01]

If you like sessions so much, there is no reason to stop them. The only question is about the regularity.

It is prudent to have a monthly budget that you forbid yourself to exceed.
Personally, by subtracting fixed fees (food, rent, tax etc...), and money I want to save for the future, I can free $600 per month for sessions. So I can do, on average, 2 sessions per month.

Of course it also depends on your other leisure activities. My other leisure activities aren't expensive (a book or video game from time to time) and that's why I can use a lot of money for sessions, but it must be more difficult for those who like cinema, night club, shopping, restaurant.
And I don't mention those who have to buy a lot of cigarette packs, which is definitely a more dangerous addiction than yours.

[qwqw]

And I don't mention those who have to buy a lot of cigarette packs, which is definitely a more dangerous addiction than yours.

A session can be dangerous too.

IMO you shouldn't even think of doing another session if you don't also save a significant amount of money. Yes, bills come first, and savings come second. Then sessions. Where are you going to be in 20 years financially if all your extra money goes to ridiculously priced sessions?

[j635746]

Let's face it how many of us who may not be heavily into fitness or bodybuilding ourselves can say that they get to to spend time with the some of the fittest, muscular and most beautiful women in the world.  So sessions are addictive.  If you can afford it, enjoy it and remember that it is just a bit for fun, then there is no harm in doing them.

If you are single with aspirations of meeting a women and possible getting married etc, then it could be a problem especially of you have been doing them for a while.  Like any addiction, it is more healthier to draw a line under sessions and stop them all together.

[Hoodman]

Be wary of addiction. I've gone past it now, but I used to have some issues with it definitely

[lll]

Thanks so much for the thoughtful responses--also just curious are you guys in committed relationships/married where these budgeted funds are a secret?

Thank you again

[octagorix]

I am a single (no relationship) and would like to do one session per week.
My favourite session is at least semi competitive wrestling (better competitive).
But unfortunately there are not enough strong girls who come in my country and I don't like to travel.
So I can do only about 12 - 20 sessions per year.
For me it's not an addiction, but a motivation to do some sport ...
I hope that I can still do sessions if I am 90 years old.

[Hemax]

I'm a single guy so I can spend my money just how I like it :-) Over the last couple of years I have an average of about 15 sessions per year. Financially that is not a problem for me, but every year I want to cut down on the number of sessions (to for instance 10 sessions in a year) so that I keep extra money for other things that I like, and every year I still do the same amount of sessions. But I would stop if wasn't able to afford it anymore.

[j635746]

I'm a single guy so I can spend my money just how I like it :-) Over the last couple of years I have an average of about 15 sessions per year. Financially that is not a problem for me, but every year I want to cut down on the number of sessions (to for instance 10 sessions in a year) so that I keep extra money for other things that I like, and every year I still do the same amount of sessions. But I would stop if wasn't able to afford it anymore.

Interesting that you mention that Hemax because I have also decided to call time on sessions.  I don't plan on stopping all together but after this year, I will only be seen a select few women, 3 to be precise, for sessions.

[marfam]

In a funny way I guess I'm lucky.
I live in a country where there are no session provider ,surely not muscular.
So I have sessions when I travel out of the country and that happends 1-3 times a year.
It depends where I travel to but usually I get 2-3 sessions per trip.
It is heavy on my budget but I mangge it seems.
When I get to have a great sessions it's like fule that keeps me going.

[submitme]

If it gets in the way of your life, and you lose control, then yeah its an addiction.

My biggest fear is losing interest in sex. comeatme!!!