References

[fa13]

Anyone ever been asked for references and how would that actually help the session girl if she doesn't know them? Is a deposit not sufficient?

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[Prophaniti]

Yes and safety

I don't know if they check with each other, but I guarantee that if a session girl has a bad experience with a sessioner, they all will know fairly soon.

[boyofwinter]

She doesn't need to know them personally if she thinks the other girl has a good reputation doing sessions. The reference will tell her you were timely in appearing, conducted yourself properly and look like the person she will be meeting.

[DCReviews]

I definitely understand the whole reference thing in terms of safety, but I've actually also had some girls ask me for a photo of my identification, separate photo of me with 3 fingers up in the photo and a link to my social media and linked-in. Not sure who in the right mind would do a lot of this. 

[Prophaniti]

The first 2 are just more verification, kinda like how Saradas had women hold up a sign saying "I love saradas". Although i don't see the point if you're giving references.

The last 2 i think are overkill, i got no problem sending insta cause i probably follow them already but I'd never give linkedIN and I don't even have one

[jbeast]

For we customers, references is a far better method than sending pics of ID documents and / or large deposits. Just sayin'...

As a guy with some experience doing sessions, the way it is now versus 10, 20 yrs. ago I'll chose experienced ladies I have known and enjoyed. I could go on about today's world but what's the point?

[Chainer★]

For we customers, references is a far better method than sending pics of ID documents and / or large deposits. Just sayin'...

As a guy with some experience doing sessions, the way it is now versus 10, 20 yrs. ago I'll chose experienced ladies I have known and enjoyed. I could go on about today's world but what's the point?

Never do that. Most of these girls are unhinged and have a relation with someone. They may blackmail you for extortion.

Even if you send them email with your real name, it's very easy it's to find your phone numbers, home address and the relatives from public resources.

They may share your sensitive details with third parties, such as some guys approach girls as friends and they may get your information to blackmail you.  Once member squeezemebaby (this guy from the Netherlands, Xander Treffers approaches girls for decades to prepare free websites in exchange of free strap-on gay sessions even if he denies) was threatening another member about getting his information from one of these girls. These girls will never hesitate to share your information with such creeps.

They may contact your wife and they may send some unwanted mails to your home. Worse is they may share your ID and corrospondences online. If you ask them, later they will say they didn't, their email was hacked and someone did this, not themselves.

They may publish your emails online without your consent:
Mightyshehulk/Michelle Dornon
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They may blackmail you wth your family:
Misfit Layla Mikayla /Tess Stump
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They may publish your private session video on their OF without your consent:
Micaela Viscido
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There're many many risks and lots of incidents & stories, I just remember now above girls threads.

Just use your own common sense.

[jbeast]

For we customers, references is a far better method than sending pics of ID documents and / or large deposits. Just sayin'...

As a guy with some experience doing sessions, the way it is now versus 10, 20 yrs. ago I'll chose experienced ladies I have known and enjoyed. I could go on about today's world but what's the point?

Never do that. Most of these girls are unhinged and have a relation with someone. They may blackmail you for extortion.

Even if you send them email with your real name, it's very easy it's to find your phone numbers, home address and the relatives from public resources.

Just use your own common sense.

I completely agree. I've got a "sub name" I was given years ago, which I use in emails. The email is only for sessions.

I once got a threatening email from a guy married to or involved with an up-and-coming session wrestler/dominatrix who posted on the wb270 site. I met her a couple of times and she told me her husband divorced her, but she had custody of their kids. He was not into the scene and got jealous of her bodybuilding, plus didn't do child support if I recall. After that email I stopped contacting her. Eventually the wb270 link disappeared and most, if not all, of her pics and videos are not online anymore.

[e_honda]

Damn I forgot about that thread with Layla Mikaela. That one was pretty bizarre.

Only comment I have on this subject is that I recall there was one sessionite who wanted your LinkedIn or professional/working profile on social media (among other things), and I always thought that was completely unnecessary and provided nothing of value.

[MakeMeFly]

I find this stuff completely obvious and would never share my ID. It could even be due to no fault of the sessionette. What if their account gets hacked or a future ex-boyfriend knows about it and wants to get back at them?

And yet some dont understand this need for privacy and insist on ID for sessions. Even if you offer a million references + a public meet first as an alternative..

[crazycrazy]

I find this stuff completely obvious and would never share my ID. It could even be due to no fault of the sessionette. What if their account gets hacked or a future ex-boyfriend knows about it and wants to get back at them?

And yet some dont understand this need for privacy and insist on ID for sessions. Even if you offer a million references + a public meet first as an alternative..

It seems hard to believe that anyone would give out their information to an individual who asks for it over an unsecured site. Do we really need to warn people not to share their name, address and identification with people they don't know over the internet?

I've provided references a few times, but I've never been asked for ID. I've seen profiles where women say they will ask for it, but I've never considered it to be a condition upon which they would insist.

Don't do it.

[MixedFighter99]

Yeah, I been sessionining since last century and have several current sessioniates that would be excellent references for me if needed as I am a long term client to the point I been seeing Robin for over twenty years. If that isn't good enough for a first session then I don't know what else is.

It's a hard rule with me that I will keep any personal information of theirs that happens to spill out private. I except the same with me though only 2 have know anything really personal about me and out of the 2, only one knows some more fine personal info about me. But I also know some pretty personal stuff about her so it's a two way street that she and I kept private for coming up on close to twenty years now.

[on the rise]

Anyone ever been asked for references and how would that actually help the session girl if she doesn't know them? Is a deposit not sufficient?

Have had a few women ask for references. It makes them feel at ease especially if it's the first time we are meeting. I don't mind giving references. I often give the women a heads up just so they aren't caught off guard.

[DCReviews]

Thinking about it more what do references really mean?  For example, if I session with lady 3 years ago and I decided to use her as a reference are they really gonna reach out to her and will she really remember? 

If references are going to be the new norm. Is everyone expected to reach out to every session lady with the exact same email so they can be cross referenced with different women? 

Or will everybody be expected to give some kind of phone number I could be checked with other women?

Will these ladies awkwardly really call other session providers and ask them if they've seen someone?

Recently for the past couple of years, I've been seeing UTR ladies for sessions, some of these women post on websites where they only show their phone number or Snapchat, and they often change their phone numbers, will these be reliable references? 

And if all of these complicated issues means, they just need a picture of you and your ID to show other people during these questions to verify you.  I would imagine that's definitely off the table for anybody intelligent, last thing I need to have them having my picture or ID

Lots of questions...

[Prophaniti]

Thinking about it more what do references really mean?  For example, if I session with lady 3 years ago and I decided to use her as a reference are they really gonna reach out to her and will she really remember? 

If references are going to be the new norm. Is everyone expected to reach out to every session lady with the exact same email so they can be cross referenced with different women? 

Or will everybody be expected to give some kind of phone number I could be checked with other women?

Will these ladies awkwardly really call other session providers and ask them if they've seen someone?

Recently for the past couple of years, I've been seeing UTR ladies for sessions, some of these women post on websites where they only show their phone number or Snapchat, and they often change their phone numbers, will these be reliable references? 

And if all of these complicated issues means, they just need a picture of you and your ID to show other people during these questions to verify you.  I would imagine that's definitely off the table for anybody intelligent, last thing I need to have them having my picture or ID

Lots of questions...

Honestly, most of what you posted doesnt matter.

Its like a reference on a resume, I provided and its up to them to follow through. I've done my part