Steve just lost his mod rights to r/sessionwrestling!

[VegasAce]

Thing is, you never treated that sub***** like an actual moderator. Instead, you hijacked that sub by basically falling into a moderator position for no other reason other than there were no mods and you took advantage of that vacancy to snatch up those privileges, and you turned it into your own little fiefdom to WHINE obsessively about Jennifer and to ban anybody who disagreed with you and for other petty reasons (and the irony of you bitching about being banned by another sub and complaining that you didn't "violate" any of their rules when everyone you banned also didn't actually violate any rules.) And don't lie to yourself: it was never about "warning" people about Jennifer, it was about fueling your obsession in the only place you could when everyone else rightly banned or restricted you and being on a power trip with exercising the little power that you had over your puppet state sub by banning people even when they were being well-meaning and trying to help.

From what I have read and seen, this entire situation was from your own doing. It sounds like you got into this role because you have a fetish for mixed wrestling and strong women (no judgment on that, so does everyone here,) but you were blinded by your fetish by not approaching this from a proper business standpoint as an independent contractor from the start. I am pretty confident that if someone else who DIDN'T have this fetish came to offer their services to Sessiongirls, they wouldn't put themselves in the same situation that you are in.

You keep complaining about how everybody takes Jennifer's side and not "Steve's" side (which by the way, constantly referring to yourself in the third person is weird and comes off as odd,) but have you ever stopped to think why that is? It's because throughout all of this, including when addressing other criticisms, Jennifer has always come across in a professional and courteous manner. Meanwhile, you have been abrasive, rude and obsessive. I've seen the emails where you have straight up taunted other session wrestlers because of their association with Jennifer, and you have also repeatedly harassed people who have any involvement in the session world (you harassed the host of the Washington Wrestle Talk podcast and wouldn't stop until he threatened calling law enforcement.) Facts matter when there are disputes like this, but how you come across socially and in how you present yourself is also extremely important, and quite frankly, you have poor social skills and awareness that have gone past the point of simple awkwardness to straight up antagonism. You shouldn't be surprised that almost no one supports you when you burned every bridge.

I think you should two things: The first is work on your social skills. Get some guidance on how you come across in person and online. Second, I think you need to step completely away from the session wrestling world. Use you coding skills for some other industry, because it's clear that this world doesn't put you in a good headspace (the whining about the lack of success your new site has comes to mind).

And finally, you need to realize this: literally every online venue has banned or restricted you, and that should speak volumes. If ONE place, maybe two, restricts you, that might be on them. But if every place in this world wants nothing to do with you, then that's a YOU issue. Stop thinking of it as a "oh everyone is against Steve this is so unfair!" , take a deep breath and ask yourself "hm, maybe I'm actually the problem?"

[VegasAce]

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[Old Surehand]

Why are we discussing what happened on another forum here?