Hey Mac,
There are slim pickings in NJ for this kind of thing. I think Bruce pretty much nailed though. Most women leave (Monix was in NYC ever so briefly) even the UTR that was here picked up and left. Your best chance is using WB270. During the Spring, Summer and Fall many women travel to the NYC area, but things dry up slightly in the winter. Though it's less likely to happen, if you get to know some of the women you might be able to convince them to see you in NJ, I did have the chance to do that once.
Good Luck