hello, in his defense, it is difficult to do something that is not like us.
she can see money and a way to earn a living while maintaining her life path linked to sport.
but if she goes backwards without it being noticeable to the people who wish to meet her, then it is normal that she ends up being disrespectful.
you should not only respect her body, but her soul as well, and even if you befriend her, remember that this is not meant to be her life ... the sessions and what she can be did this out of spite, I don't know her, nor you, but it's always more human not to reduce someone for what she represents in your eyes.
and necessarily more touching for this person that we see beyond that .
morality, not to commit too quickly, not to expect too much, and not to show too much generosity, this can be scary, because it makes the other accountable.
i was bored so i wrote after i read you.
nothing else, good day or night to you.