Now I'm disturbed

[Polite Society]

 Did she directly address you or was it generic?
  I don't see anything 'disturbing' from this.  Email who you think is responsible and ask her politely if she shared your details.  Disturbing would be someone you don't know making threats to expose your session fetish when contacting you.  This isn't that.

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[Prophaniti]

yea no, that's not cool. Don't share my contact info without asking me first

Think of it this way. If they shared your contact info without your permission, what else have they shared? I'd probably drop the first one too

[Boselectah]

I'd just politely reply saying no thanks, enquire where she got my details from and gently suggest that unsolicited contact from ladies could cause gents embarrassment if their wives/girlfriends stumbled on the message. Therefore it maybe best if she refrains from such antics going forwards.

[SoulPlane]

Times are times! In addition to all session girls upping their prices, it would seem the next step is forwarding clients' emails to other girls.

[bruce321]

Related, some women ask for references. I remember speaking to a sessionette about that and she said she never responds to other women's inquiries about clients because they're the competition. I think that's the reason this scenario doesn't seem to have occurred before. It's not in a woman's interest to share her clients, even with a friend.

[Jonas]

I'd just politely reply saying no thanks, enquire where she got my details from and gently suggest that unsolicited contact from ladies could cause gents embarrassment if their wives/girlfriends stumbled on the message. Therefore it maybe best if she refrains from such antics going forwards.

Even if you're not with someone, you shouldn't use anything but a dedicated email for stuff like sessions.  Never leave that up to chance.  Same with Insta****.  If you're trying to find UTRs on IG, you should have a separate IG just for that.  It's just good practice and common sense. 

[Warhawk Overdrive]

I emailed her and she said she had my address in her "rolodex" from "way back" Not sure if I believe that one but that is the reason she gave

[josh3157]

I have an email specific for sessions and other things of this nature. I was also included on a CC list where the woman had everyone's email listed. Some first and last names. 🤣

[FBBMW]

It's possible that a SG will give a friend the name of some good session guy, but probably will be rare. 

It's possible to email some SG for info, then some time later she comes up with a new SG ID and responds to
guys in her contact list.     

[MixedFighter99]

 

It's possible that a SG will give a friend the name of some good session guy, but probably will be rare. 

It's possible to email some SG for info, then some time later she comes up with a new SG ID and responds to
guys in her contact list.   

I actually had the first one but the sessionate who I had a good relationship asked me up front if it was okay I share my name with a good friend of hers like a referral.

[JavaMan]

It's possible that a SG will give a friend the name of some good session guy, but probably will be rare. 

It's possible to email some SG for info, then some time later she comes up with a new SG ID and responds to
guys in her contact list.   

I've had that happen to me.   I got an email from a session wrestler that I had never contacted saying she was given my name by a session wrestler that I had recently sessioned with.  I had a very good connection with the session wrestler who referred me, so it didn't surprise me nor did it bother me.  I took it as a compliment and felt it should put me in good standing with the session wrestler who contacted me out of the blue. 

[Polite Society]

  When I ran my UTR Agency,  there was nothing better than getting a message sometimes months after first contacting a competitor saying she wanted to join.  Those were the days.

[Boselectah]

I emailed her and she said she had my address in her "rolodex" from "way back" Not sure if I believe that one but that is the reason she gave

Bloody hello, Rolodex. Ain't heard that word for years. She must be at least 75 yrs old then. Better keep an eye on your postbox in case she posts you a written invite next...

[busthemus2003]

Personally I wouldn't mind but understand why some think it could be a bit creepy. I have certainly had plenty contact me when they we're travelling to my areas but always previous contacts.