You know your session is going good when...

[Bulklover]

When she opens the door naked pulls you inside with big kiss and grabs your dick.

This thread is supposed to be about real life experiences, not fantasies.

Based on nujerz84's recollections and posts on this site, I don't think that's a fantasy.

Agreed.  And knowing Jerz and some mutual acquaintances we have, I'm sure it's not a fantasy.  For some reason, I have been unaccountably lucky with a lot of the ladies.  My only possible explanation is that my expressed attitude has always been "If the fbber aint' havin' fun, ain't no one havin' fun," so when they would ask me what kind of a session I wanted, I would explain that I'd enjoyed sessions that ran the full spectrum from ultra competitive wrestling that I feared would end with me suffering a dislocated limb, to as sensual as the human imagination can conceive, and everything in between, so "What is YOUR favorite session?" A combination of that, treating them with respect, and assuring them that I will never cross any lines or limits, I think, has made them comfortable with me.  I don't think I've EVER had a session go FS on the first meeting, but the number of sessions that were so remarkable that they necessitated a repeat visit, often ended up going the distance.  With one lady, who was a favorite of mine (we'd seen each other at least a dozen times), during the most recent session, we were doing the old bump and grind but it was understood that I was to remain "outdoors," and suddenly, she hops on  board!  It was spectacular and I thought I was going to blow a cranial artery!  I added a substantial amount of cash before I departed, made it the new standard of payment, and we had at least another dozen sessions that were understood to be FS.  This scenario happened with, I think, three other ladies, and it was always a complete, but blessed, surprise.  Memories I will take to my deathbed . . . so many awesome women who treated me like gold . . . maybe it was just the cash, but it didn't feel like that.

[Bulklover]

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[tarzan7]

I agree with bulklover, especially, "treating them with respect, and assuring them that I will never cross any lines or limits, I think, has made them comfortable with me." I've never had FS with an FBB, but I consider myself very lucky to be so intimate with many I have sessioned with.

I posted advice like this once before: basically do your homework and see what her likes/dislikes are; think with the head on your shoulders and not the one between your legs in making your choice; act like it's a date - take a shower, brush your teeth, smell nice and dress well; and, since I do a lot of roleplay and not competitive wrestling etc., get yourself in a sub mindset that YOU have been HIRED to please HER.

Of the 30 or so FBBs I've sessioned with, many I saw multiple times due to chemistry, mutual trust and respect. I've even had great times with a couple of ladies whose reviews on this site have been have been lousy at best. In my view this is an expensive, intimate hobby and behind closed doors - if you're lucky things happen you'd never expect. I've had oral performed on me out of the blue a handful of times, once within a couple of minutes of my first session with one FBB. (She stopped quickly and said, "Too soon." By the end I left with a smile on my face.") I did parts of some sessions in semi-public settings, which was initially not my idea. The weirdest and one of the hottest sessions was when an FBB I saw for several years asked me to shave her pussy. I shaved her like my barber would shave my beard. I cleaned her up, dried her off and, upon request, pleasured her there for a long, long time that night.  You never know...

[Bulklover]

Well said, Tarzan.  Another thing I just thought to add.  I've also had some terrific sessions with women who have gotten decidedly less than stellar reviews.  Lauren Powers comes to mind.  She only lives about fifteen minutes from me, so when I discovered her, I gave her a try.  This was years ago when she was quite massive, which was right up my alley.  There was never any FS and I didn't expect any, and while I did detect a bit of a disconnected vibe, I simply tried to kill her with kindness and say such things as "One of the reasons I so admire fbbers is NOT because you do what you do to gain adulation; it's because you do what you do IN SPITE of the negativity you often face from society.  It takes a strong individual to buck conventional thinking," or words to that effect.  And that statement is true!  We had at least ten terrific sessions and as we got to know one another better actually developed a friendship of sorts.  I bumped into her at a local biker bar (how can you not dig a chick who rides a red, white, and blue Harley?), and instead of pretending she didn't know be because I'm a customer, ran up and gave me a big hug . . . much to the dismay of Mrs. Bulklover . . . yes, I had to do some quick talking.  LOL!  My point is that not EVERY lady actually enjoys sessions; a lot of them don't and do it to "feed the bodybuilding beast."  I know I couldn't do it, so I do my utmost to make them feel as comfortable as I can.  Like Tarzan said, treat it like it's a date with a woman on whom you'd like to make a good impression . . . confidence without arrogance, humor without childishness (wit is even better!), generosity, concern . . . sadly, too many of these qualities are, for too many guys, outside the strike zone.  Good luck, team!!

[tarzan7]

Bulklover, thanks. Lauren Powers... who could've figured that? Mine was "Layla Lane" - her session name.

Always got lousy reviews. She's a busty, blonde FBB who likes wrestling. We had a half dozen sessions when she visited Manhattan from 2001 until 2008. Five were great, one was... eh. We did role play and body worship. She was comfortable with me, knew what I liked and I knew what she liked. Last session I had with her I asked for full nude when I came in the door. She said sure and didn't ask for extra $. It was a sunny summer afternoon, the shades in her bedroom at the hotel were open, and I was about to close them because they faced the other wing of the hotel. She said, "No, let's give 'em a free show." Her saying that was an extreme turn on. Best session with her, ever. If anyone was watching we gave them a GREAT show. LOL!

[Bulklover]

Another one was Colette Guimond.  Now, to be fair, I met her back in '92 when she was very muscular, but nothing like the unicorn she's become.  At the time, I was dating a fbber who was friends with Colette.  So my gf took me to the . . . wtf was it called?  Something like "The Celebration of the Strongest Women on Earth" although that's not quite it.  Laurie Fierstein organized it in NYC, and it was an awesome show.  Nicole Bass was quite young and still competing and came storming out dressed like Supergirl, so she also had not quite yet turned into her unicorn of later years.  During one part of the show, Colette came crawling across the stage with her body painted in tiger stripes . . . I almost emptied my magazine into the back of the neck of the guy in front of me right there!  My gf could see that I'd utterly lost my composure and started grabbing at me!  Jesus, what a situation!!
Anyway, the show was a lot of fun and later, my gf introduced me to Colette and a bunch of the other fbbers who performed and a bunch of us went out for drinks.  Okay, years later, Colette is now what she's become . . . and I decided I HAD to give her a whirl; I was in the middle of about a ten year stretch of my "session palooza."  When I arrived for the session, I reminded her who I was and that we'd met.  Now at this point, I hadn't seen any reviews about her other than wb270 which were positive, so I had no preconceived notions.  Well, the session was fantastic.  She was still very cute with her French accent (if someone 5' 1" and 185 lbs. can be called "cute") and quite shy at first, but I think the fact that we'd met previously certainly helped.  Our paths never crossed after that, but when I started seeing negative reviews, and so many of them, I was quite surprised.  It was all good, clean fun . . . well, good fun.  Heehee!

[jhall1jax]

Good Lord yall have some great stories. Now I'm realizing how boring my sessions are LOL. I appreciate the great tips in this thread.

[richmann]

My first ever session was with Lynn McCrossin. I booked a 1 hour session with her at a hotel she was staying at in Arizona. I was just expecting muscle worship and a bit of playful wrestling.

I ended up staying all night, with us having dinner, and a great session with her pinning me, sitting on my face whilst I licked her. Then the most amazing BJ I've ever had. I saw her a few times after that as a friend but we sadly drifted apart as she had a lot going on in her life at the time.

[MLB93]

My first ever session was with Lynn McCrossin. I booked a 1 hour session with her at a hotel she was staying at in Arizona. I was just expecting muscle worship and a bit of playful wrestling.

I ended up staying all night, with us having dinner, and a great session with her pinning me, sitting on my face whilst I licked her. Then the most amazing BJ I've ever had. I saw her a few times after that as a friend but we sadly drifted apart as she had a lot going on in her life at the time.

Too bad she passed away. RIP Pec Panther.