Rethinking my tastes and desires about a session

[Makko2]

Hi all,
as I prevoiusly written in another post, I have recently met Miss M. transforming one of my biggest session dream in a reality.
She was stunning, but the part more disappointing was.. my own body.
I discovered that during last years my body has lost elasticity and it makes lifting me more difficult, also because grabbing my waist can cause little traumas to my ribs. In addiction, I am not so agile to be lifted easily, for example, with a bench press, which I'd like to try, but I fear my rib cage would be traumatized by that manouver.

So I am rethinking to the goal of a future session as a more sensual one (with only little safely lifts), for avoiding any risks, although in my previous three session (Miss M included) I was too excited, but embarassed too, and it remains difficult to think me in a sexy scenario with a session provider more open to this type of things.

So I want to ask you: have you ever decided to change your tastes or expectation about a session? Do you think session providers could be so "patient" to encourage a more sexy approach although it is not easy for me imagine myself totally "ready", mentally and physically, for this kind of session?

I hope ho have been not too convoluted in this post.
Thanks to all! Bye

[Makko2]

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[VegasAce]

Out of curiosity, how do you take care of your body as you get older? Do you work out regularly, and perhaps more importantly, practice a regular mobility routine?

Aging happens, and that can affect things like our strength and our mobility. But keeping fit and mobile can slow that down, if not halt or even improve it to an extent. You don't have to necessarily resign yourself to taking those things that you used to enjoy completely if you can improve that agility and mobility.

[MakeMeFly]

Hi all,
as I prevoiusly written in another post, I have recently met Miss M. transforming one of my biggest session dream in a reality.
She was stunning, but the part more disappointing was.. my own body.
I discovered that during last years my body has lost elasticity and it makes lifting me more difficult, also because grabbing my waist can cause little traumas to my ribs. In addiction, I am not so agile to be lifted easily, for example, with a bench press, which I'd like to try, but I fear my rib cage would be traumatized by that manouver.

So I am rethinking to the goal of a future session as a more sensual one (with only little safely lifts), for avoiding any risks, although in my previous three session (Miss M included) I was too excited, but embarassed too, and it remains difficult to think me in a sexy scenario with a session provider more open to this type of things.

So I want to ask you: have you ever decided to change your tastes or expectation about a session? Do you think session providers could be so "patient" to encourage a more sexy approach although it is not easy for me imagine myself totally "ready", mentally and physically, for this kind of session?

I hope ho have been not too convoluted in this post.
Thanks to all! Bye

yeah... so the scenarios played in the mind don't always match reality. Certain types of lifts are damn painful.

[MixedFighter99]

Hi all,
as I prevoiusly written in another post, I have recently met Miss M. transforming one of my biggest session dream in a reality.
She was stunning, but the part more disappointing was.. my own body.
I discovered that during last years my body has lost elasticity and it makes lifting me more difficult, also because grabbing my waist can cause little traumas to my ribs. In addiction, I am not so agile to be lifted easily, for example, with a bench press, which I'd like to try, but I fear my rib cage would be traumatized by that manouver.

So I am rethinking to the goal of a future session as a more sensual one (with only little safely lifts), for avoiding any risks, although in my previous three session (Miss M included) I was too excited, but embarassed too, and it remains difficult to think me in a sexy scenario with a session provider more open to this type of things.

So I want to ask you: have you ever decided to change your tastes or expectation about a session? Do you think session providers could be so "patient" to encourage a more sexy approach although it is not easy for me imagine myself totally "ready", mentally and physically, for this kind of session?

I hope ho have been not too convoluted in this post.
Thanks to all! Bye

Yes that is totally typical IMHO. As you session more, you will want to try different types of sessionates and sessions. Plus as you get older your taste and needs might change.

Far as sessions being more sensual in natural, let them take the lead. They will let you know if that is on the menu or not.

[Makko2]

Out of curiosity, how do you take care of your body as you get older? Do you work out regularly, and perhaps more importantly, practice a regular mobility routine?

Aging happens, and that can affect things like our strength and our mobility. But keeping fit and mobile can slow that down, if not halt or even improve it to an extent. You don't have to necessarily resign yourself to taking those things that you used to enjoy completely if you can improve that agility and mobility.

Yes, I am not so old (under 50) but I have a disease affacting my bones that makes them more fragile then the avarage. Yes, doing more exercise I could gain more muscle mass and a bit of increase of agility, but the structure remains the same, and to become a "good human weight" it is important having an elastic bone structure than agile muscles, in my opinion. Some muscolar development could be usefull for people who are into wrestling sessions, where they like to challenge themselves agains a professional and strong session provider.

[2ndHoodman]

I workout daily so that helps but I also I genuinely worry about your health overall that there's some roughness. I hope you are able to take care of your self.

There's some I can't do. Biggest is not huge strapons anymore due to injuring myself. I can still do pegging though.

[Makko2]

I again!
Although I was always fashinated about sensual experiences testified by this Forum members, in the past I have been always a little perplexed about a sensual component in a session, also because of "ethical" beliefs: I thought (And partially it remain my opinion also nowadays) that if a muscle woman can accept and maybe like a guy worshipping and admiring her body, it does not mean she could easily decide to be involved in more sensual things this guy thinks are a "natural" evolution of the session, no matters how many money she could gain doing it.

The only sensual fantasy I think I could not fear to fulfill, without feeling guilty, it could be a naked FS session with Amazonka... Also if she adviced me she would kill me with her bare hands at the very end of the session to hide every proof of it to her husband, I would accept these conditions without thinking or esitating too much...

Going back to reality, now I am reading with more interest threads on this Forum about members' sensual experiences, trying to find a situation and a model I could be more interested and involved... I am already uncertain about choosing a more "charismatic" and experienced woman type, who could not be shy about sensual situations, giving me a way to learn how to do and to expect from them, ore a younger and funnier one, who could allow me to experience sensual scenarios together in a more peer2peer approach. I have not already decided about a more muscle model, who can easily involve me in a more "dominant" situation or a more womanly and curvy one, with a more sweet and hosting approach... Or a mix of all these situations and fantasies together...

So I accept every advice can help me to find the right way to discover the most potentially fullfilling experience for a newbe in sensual sessions... And models who usually travel in Europe who could become interesting for me, in this moment.
Thanks a lot!
Bye

[FBBMW]

You know what kinds of sessions you like, so each session can be a little different. 
If you are too set on one type, you won't do many sessions.   
 
Different types of girls can provide varied sessions. 
Read their profiles to get a clue on what they offer.   
Some indicate more sensual.  Photos show if any muscle.   

[Makko2]

Thanks FBBMW, I will surely do as you suggested, but at the moment I can't afford too many sessions, due both to time and money limits, so I cannot truly trust on a try&find method, but I prefer to spend more time on scouting and choosing, till I will find the most right session woman for me (in my opinion, of course).

The problem is that a provider's "sensual talents" are a matter of chemistry and they are less measurable than "lift&carry" ones.
Furthermore, these skills aren't usually explicited easily on SG and also in forum like this one. And, of course, it could be a little more difficult for me asking directly to a woman if she can assure a more pleasing session to me than a usual worship one. So, well, I feel I have to look around for a pretty long time, if needed.

So, I appreciate to appreciate your suggestions both on this thread and on other ones in this forum.
Have a nice day!

[FBBMW]

If you want sensual or FS, it's safer to ask in your email, if you have read in reviews that the SG
offers it.   Some invite us to ask anything.  Some won't reply if you ask about sensual. 
If you like someone, you can start with MW, lift, wrestle, etc.  Next time maybe they will go further.     

[Makko2]

Yes, I understand that I may be more able to use diplomacy while I am in contact with a SW I'd like to meet to ask for any further service. I hope also to be more deceptive about sensual opportunity SW are used to offer.
It is a new travel for me... But an enthusiastic one... Let's see...
Bye

[Zenzen]

I think it's perfectly normal for your tastes and expectations to change over time. Sometimes the experience of finally fulfilling a long-held fantasy helps us discover what we really enjoy and what works best for us physically and emotionally.

There's no reason to feel embarrassed about wanting a more sensual session. A good session provider should be willing to discuss your preferences, listen to your concerns, and help you find an approach that makes you feel comfortable. You don't have to force yourself into a scenario just because it was once your ultimate fantasy.

My advice would be to communicate openly with the provider beforehand, explain your physical limitations, and discuss what you'd like to explore at a pace that feels right for you. You can still enjoy the excitement and intimacy of a session without attempting demanding lifts or maneuvers that might put you at risk. Given your concerns about your ribs and reduced mobility, it's sensible to avoid risky lifts until you've discussed them with a healthcare professional.

And remember, you don't have to feel completely confident or "ready" from the beginning. Sometimes the best experiences come from taking things slowly and discovering what feels natural along the way.

Ultimately, the goal should be to enjoy yourself, feel comfortable, and come away with positive memories not to prove anything or push your body beyond its limits.

Good luck with your future sessions! I hope you find the approach that works best for you.