What are your biggest regrets about a session you enjoyed?

[Makko2]

Hi all,
many threads on this forum are usually about delusional sessions due to some wrong sessionist behaviour. But how about discussing when it was our behaviour that risked to ruin a good session?
So, here are some questions for you:
- Have u ever hesitated to plan a session and at the end you repented about your decision? What athlete are you regretting to have missed?
- Have you ever thought that during a previous session you didn't asked about what u really wanted to try? What did you desidered but you didn't realize and with what sessionist?
- Have you felt guilty because of a delusional session (or part of it) because some mistake you think you did relationing with a sessionist?
I think that our experiences could be useful for each other and for new fans who are planning their first session. Don't you?
Thanks for your attention!
Bye

[Makko2]

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[Zenzen]

This is actually a really interesting topic because most of the "session regret" discussions focus on bad providers or disappointing experiences, when sometimes the biggest source of regret is ourselves.

Looking back, my biggest mistake has usually been overthinking rather than anything the sessionist did.

I've definitely had situations where I spent so much time debating whether to book that the opportunity disappeared. Then, once the tour was over, I realized I would have much rather taken the chance than spent months wondering "what if?"

Another thing I've noticed is that it's easy to arrive with a very general idea of what you want, only to realize afterward that there were one or two specific things you really wanted to try but never mentioned. Not because the provider wouldn't have done them, but because you got caught up in the moment and forgot to ask.

I also think first-timers sometimes put too much pressure on themselves. They worry about saying the wrong thing, asking for too much, appearing awkward, or somehow ruining the session. As a result, they become passive and let the session happen instead of actively participating in it.

One lesson I've learned is that if you're paying for a session, it's worth spending a little time beforehand thinking about your priorities. You don't need a detailed script, but having a few "must-do" items in mind can help prevent that feeling afterward of "I wish I had asked."

Fortunately, I don't have any major regrets involving bad behavior toward a provider, but I do occasionally look back and think, "I should have been more relaxed and enjoyed the experience instead of analyzing everything while it was happening."

If there's a common theme to most session regrets, I think it's hesitation either before the session or during it. The things we didn't do often stick in our minds longer than the things we did.

[2ndHoodman]

Wish I had asked definitely came about Debra D'Andrea. She didn't know I wanted dominant and aggressive and I didn't word that

[Tiberius]

Having had the Session. Fabis session where always special but once she kept me way over the scheduled time and worked me over until I was a shaking and quivering with pleasure and pain. I left craving her more than when I came. Thoughts of it creeping up would elicit a strong physical reaction.   

[jbeast]

This sounds like a "My Way" question. "Regrets, I've had a few. But then again, too few to mention." Here I go. I will exclude the few times I thought with the head between my legs looking at pics, and not with my head. I didn't tell the lady what I wanted and two or three did nothing.

1. I regret not sessioning with a few ladies. The late Lynn McCrossin, Amber DeLuca (camming though), Goddess Rapture (brief meeting, no session) and a few others who retired or passed away.

2. I regret not sessioning more with ladies I was a regular with. Did Kathy Connors once... there was more to explore. LOL! And the late Amber Costello, saw her once. She was Italian, I'm part Italian, and when I called to set up the appointment I asked about where she came from, where my family was from, so by the time she opened her hotel room door it was a whirlwind. She had a mini-suite and we immediately stripped and played in two or three rooms. If I had stayed longer, or saw her a second time, FS would have been on the table.

3. Speaking of FS, that was possible with a few ladies I was a regular with. Never asked, came close... maybe it was better without it. I'll never know. But as you can see, I had plenty of fun! Really few regrest. 

[artax]

Lynn McCrossin is my regret too- had something planned but I got sick and cancelled- also though I did see her once regret that Roxie Rain retired shortly after I started sessioning

[Camper]

Biggest regret was being too naive early on to realize FS was definitely available a few times. Reading stories on here about ladies I sessioned with, I realized some of you are better at taking hints than I am!!!  Won't name names but the regret is real.

[t651]

Where I live, sessions are practically non existent.  There are plenty of fit and muscular ladies, but no worshipping scene whatsoever.
Its also a place that well out of the way for even international travellers.

This was until a travelling SW turned up at a local establishment.  She was clearly an ex competitive bodybuilder (and even advertised as such with big clit and all)
She advertised what many here would describe as a dream cum true.  Everything was on the table and best of all, she was cheap!

However I was too afraid to make a booking.  I came close several times, but alas just couldn't do it.
She left a few months later and I have forever been left with regretful "what if" thoughts.

This story does have a happy ending in that a couple of international sessionistas have started visiting this place and I have since popped my proverbial muscle worship cherry.

Don't live with any regrets!

[Tacotico]

Only 1 session with Skytriss and onky 3 with Bunny ! ...

[jbeast]

Never saw Skytriss. Speaking to her receptionist, a guy (husband?), was a turn off.

Met Bunny in a session once and spoke to her when she was still working as a stripper a couple of days before our session. Great lady!

[2ndHoodman]

Definitely not somehow finagling a way for my young ass 18/19 to somehow drive to see Gabrielle Hames - so unlikely lol for driving at that age but not to get there.

That I didn't actually see Roxie Rain and told her not to worry about it. Also not seeing some people again. And I did a UTR with someone who passed out during competition because I wanted wrestling. There were some very famous ladies I could've just done muscle worship with.

Most recently, I regret not getting off when I could've with someone.

[jbeast]

Definitely not somehow finagling a way for my young ass 18/19 to somehow drive to see Gabrielle Hames - so unlikely lol for driving at that age but not to get there.

That I didn't actually see Roxie Rain and told her not to worry about it. Also not seeing some people again. And I did a UTR with someone who passed out during competition because I wanted wrestling. There were some very famous ladies I could've just done muscle worship with.

Most recently, I regret not getting off when I could've with someone.

I agree with everything you said. With Gabrielle, I traveled to Vegas two, three times a year. I hesitated, and as the old saying goes, I lost. Never met her. Always thought Roxie Rain was hot but I never was in the same town when she was.

[2ndHoodman]

This is actually a really interesting topic because most of the "session regret" discussions focus on bad providers or disappointing experiences, when sometimes the biggest source of regret is ourselves.

Looking back, my biggest mistake has usually been overthinking rather than anything the sessionist did.

I've definitely had situations where I spent so much time debating whether to book that the opportunity disappeared. Then, once the tour was over, I realized I would have much rather taken the chance than spent months wondering "what if?"

Another thing I've noticed is that it's easy to arrive with a very general idea of what you want, only to realize afterward that there were one or two specific things you really wanted to try but never mentioned. Not because the provider wouldn't have done them, but because you got caught up in the moment and forgot to ask.

I also think first-timers sometimes put too much pressure on themselves. They worry about saying the wrong thing, asking for too much, appearing awkward, or somehow ruining the session. As a result, they become passive and let the session happen instead of actively participating in it.

One lesson I've learned is that if you're paying for a session, it's worth spending a little time beforehand thinking about your priorities. You don't need a detailed script, but having a few "must-do" items in mind can help prevent that feeling afterward of "I wish I had asked."

Fortunately, I don't have any major regrets involving bad behavior toward a provider, but I do occasionally look back and think, "I should have been more relaxed and enjoyed the experience instead of analyzing everything while it was happening."

If there's a common theme to most session regrets, I think it's hesitation either before the session or during it. The things we didn't do often stick in our minds longer than the things we did.

Very relatable on must haves and debating so much was what happened to me and Arekah. I was finally ready and then I had to move to Texas for a job and never had the opportunity again

This sounds like a "My Way" question. "Regrets, I've had a few. But then again, too few to mention." Here I go. I will exclude the few times I thought with the head between my legs looking at pics, and not with my head. I didn't tell the lady what I wanted and two or three did nothing.

1. I regret not sessioning with a few ladies. The late Lynn McCrossin, Amber DeLuca (camming though), Goddess Rapture (brief meeting, no session) and a few others who retired or passed away.

2. I regret not sessioning more with ladies I was a regular with. Did Kathy Connors once... there was more to explore. LOL! And the late Amber Costello, saw her once. She was Italian, I'm part Italian, and when I called to set up the appointment I asked about where she came from, where my family was from, so by the time she opened her hotel room door it was a whirlwind. She had a mini-suite and we immediately stripped and played in two or three rooms. If I had stayed longer, or saw her a second time, FS would have been on the table.

3. Speaking of FS, that was possible with a few ladies I was a regular with. Never asked, came close... maybe it was better without it. I'll never know. But as you can see, I had plenty of fun! Really few regrest. 

All strong points. And jbeast are you junglebeast at the other forum? Lynn McCrossin bums me out too

[Sancona]

I regret that I have refuse several FS (because I wanted to keep my bodycount low)

[2ndHoodman]

Is there a reason for that on the bodycount bit? Unless saving for marriage, I understand