Sessionette expecting you to book a hotel.

[OrangeCountyCalifornia]

Hi, not naming names but over the last three years, I've had two sessionettes that were traveling in my town and when I tried to book a session with them, she wanted to come to my place which is not possible because of my living situation or I am expected to book a hotel for us.  I did book a hotel but it's an additional expense on top of paying the fees for the session.  I'm traveling to Vancouver soon and there is someone that will be traveling to the city at the same time that I'd like to see except I'll be staying in an Airbnb in which the host is not allowing visitors and I don't want to be put on the spot in booking a hotel.  So how do I delicately put it when inquiring about a session that me booking a hotel is out of the question in addition to the fact that I'm staying in an Airbnb?

Is it becoming commonplace for sessionettes doing outcalls as opposed to incalls?

[OrangeCountyCalifornia]

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[crazycrazy]

In your introductory email, you should clearly state that you expect the session to take place in the session provider's incall location. She will have to respond that she can host or that she only does outcalls. You do not have to be delicate about this: These are business arrangements, sessions are services provided by independant small businesspeople. Clarity in communications is an important element to avoid confusion.

[Creamnant]

Probably, these sessionettes don't travel alone.
Or, like you OrangeCountyCalifornia, they also book airbnb with restrictions.
Either way, the only risk of asking them to visit their place of residence is a 'no'. But if you send your request with respect and explanation, 'no' won't be the last word in your communication.

[FBBMW]

SG that are touring have their own hotel room in most cases.   

If a SG is in town for a reason other than a session tour, then maybe she will do outcall to you, in which case she may want you to
pay for the room, if not your place.       

If a SG is touring, it's better for her to have her own room, to eliminate travel between sessions.   

You can suggest splitting the room, especially if her rate is high.     

[OrangeCountyCalifornia]

All helpful, thanks guys.

[Bernie1212]

 Only time I've been asked to provide a room is when I traveled to, or lived in her hometown.  Luckily in the later case I have been able to host a few at my house...but that generally takes some trust.

[MixedFighter99]

Only time I've been asked to provide a room is when I traveled to, or lived in her hometown.  Luckily in the later case I have been able to host a few at my house...but that generally takes some trust.

Lots of trusts. Been sessioning 25 years and only had the privilege of them hosting me in their  homes with a few ladies all of which I was a long term client with them.

[Bernie1212]

Only time I've been asked to provide a room is when I traveled to, or lived in her hometown.  Luckily in the later case I have been able to host a few at my house...but that generally takes some trust.

Lots of trusts. Been sessioning 25 years and only had the privilege of them hosting me in their  homes with a few ladies all of which I was a long term client with them.

Shoot, I guess I'm lucky or trustworthy.   I've been to four five girls houses, and have had maybe a dozen come to mine.

[MixedFighter99]

Only time I've been asked to provide a room is when I traveled to, or lived in her hometown.  Luckily in the later case I have been able to host a few at my house...but that generally takes some trust.

Lots of trusts. Been sessioning 25 years and only had the privilege of them hosting me in their  homes with a few ladies all of which I was a long term client with them.

Shoot, I guess I'm lucky or trustworthy.   I've been to four five girls houses, and have had maybe a dozen come to mine.

LOL Guess so! I will add that oddlya lot of local sessioniates for some reason. There has been some very good providers in my area but I for some reason have seen mainly out of town sessioniates therefore its almost always been hotel sessions since they are on the road or when I'm traveling and I happen to h3 in their hometown, they come see me at my hotel or in a couple cases an airbnb that I rented.

And again i really don't know why I never really gotten a local sessioniate that i see regularly enough that I go to there place and/or vice versa. Maybe it's a subconscious don't crap where your eat thing but mainly it's my area has been excellent overall for traveling sessioniates so it always seemed like whenever I was ready and/or had the funds for another session, there was an out of town sessioniate coming i was excited to see.

FWIW the sessioniate and I seen the most in my schmoe career lived (and still does) about 90 minutes apart from me which was I drive I made regularly and include sessions at her place and eventually when she would come to my area as part of her tour, my place to again session.

[crazycrazy]

I have had a few session providers visit me at my place over the years, starting many years ago with Olga, who I had met before. Recently Lauren Banks came to my place. A woman has to be willing to take a chance when you host a first meeting in a private home.

I've been to a few locals homes, in my city or travelling. The set up will vary. A single woman living in an expensive city will be pressed for space. Cassandra stands out for fitting her mats, gloves and pads from her location at Deviant Domain into her downtown Los Angeles studio apartment. It looked like a martial arts studio with an apartment off to the side. Flamedragan hosted in her neighbour's basement for a while. I could hear the older women giggling upstairs while she clobbered me. My favourite local provider hosts in her one-bedroom apartment downtown. It's cramped, but she makes it work.

[Boselectah]

Hi, not naming names but over the last three years, I've had two sessionettes that were traveling in my town and when I tried to book a session with them, she wanted to come to my place which is not possible because of my living situation or I am expected to book a hotel for us.  I did book a hotel but it's an additional expense on top of paying the fees for the session.  I'm traveling to Vancouver soon and there is someone that will be traveling to the city at the same time that I'd like to see except I'll be staying in an Airbnb in which the host is not allowing visitors and I don't want to be put on the spot in booking a hotel.  So how do I delicately put it when inquiring about a session that me booking a hotel is out of the question in addition to the fact that I'm staying in an Airbnb?

Is it becoming commonplace for sessionettes doing outcalls as opposed to incalls?

Personally I would not let the Air B'n B "small print" stop me having a discrete session, I'm sure hotels have similar T&Cs about conducting sexualised tristes on their premises too but that doesn't stop anyone does it?

Plus, if you want to do sessions you need to be more forward thinking when you book accommodation - why book an Air BnB that doesn't allow visitors? You kinda shot yourself in the foot there. Always book a room with a big bed and a sturdy wardrobe to leap off!

[OrangeCountyCalifornia]

Hi, not naming names but over the last three years, I've had two sessionettes that were traveling in my town and when I tried to book a session with them, she wanted to come to my place which is not possible because of my living situation or I am expected to book a hotel for us.  I did book a hotel but it's an additional expense on top of paying the fees for the session.  I'm traveling to Vancouver soon and there is someone that will be traveling to the city at the same time that I'd like to see except I'll be staying in an Airbnb in which the host is not allowing visitors and I don't want to be put on the spot in booking a hotel.  So how do I delicately put it when inquiring about a session that me booking a hotel is out of the question in addition to the fact that I'm staying in an Airbnb?

Is it becoming commonplace for sessionettes doing outcalls as opposed to incalls?

Personally I would not let the Air B'n B "small print" stop me having a discrete session, I'm sure hotels have similar T&Cs about conducting sexualised tristes on their premises too but that doesn't stop anyone does it?

Plus, if you want to do sessions you need to be more forward thinking when you book accommodation - why book an Air BnB that doesn't allow visitors? You kinda shot yourself in the foot there. Always book a room with a big bed and a sturdy wardrobe to leap off!

I wasn't originally planning to do a session with anybody when visiting Vancouver.  It's just that this sessionette popped up after I booked my reservations.  While I would like to see her, I don't need to see her that bad.

Plus it's not just specifically my upcoming trip.  I'm just saying in general an increasingly number of sessionettes either want to come to my house or expect me to book a hotel when coming to my city.