Toned Tommi invited me to stay overnight in her hotel to secure a session fee once, but I declined. This was just before her accident that led to her retirement.
Do it. Life is short.
I met Tommi in L.A. for an amazing session. I tipped her well for her extra time driving to me and then home. Probably also for a sitter. She cried. I thought she was very genuine.
When she announced a trip to northern NY, I asked her about Toronto. She said she would consider Buffalo, about a two hour drive. I booked her but she changed her schedule. I had a martial arts test the same day. So she said how about you come to see me in Detroit? I said, a four hour drive, no I can't do that twice in one day. Especially not after a bruising session with an MMA competitor. So she offered me the option that I could stay in her hotel overnight.
Our regrets in life are the opportunities that are gone, the chances we didn't take, the experiences that we missed.