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Female BodyBuilding & Fitness & Figure - Members Area => Tastes and opinions of Saradas members => Topic started by: Swizzlenuts on April 09, 2017, 03:27:25 pm
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I'm glad there are people out there with the same interest as me, but do you ever feel uncomfortable with your attraction? I certainly do. I've had this (fetish?) for as long as I can remember, probably since junior high. I've been called gay by the people I've shared my attraction with. Have any of you?
Alina Popa pictures make me so fucking hard and idk why. Looks like a man, but something about it is soooo hot
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Also, do you still consider these women women after they take steroids and their voices start changing and they develop masculine features? Why or why not?
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only in public
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Not at all. But I don't tell about my tastes around. But I don't hide them.
I'd like that muscled female become more mainstream.
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When I was youger, yes, of course, i truly feel ashamed. I didn't know what to think about me, about this fetish.
But now, I'm cool with it!
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I'm glad there are people out there with the same interest as me, but do you ever feel uncomfortable with your attraction? I certainly do. I've had this (fetish?) for as long as I can remember, probably since junior high. I've been called gay by the people I've shared my attraction with. Have any of you?
Alina Popa pictures make me so fucking hard and idk why. Looks like a man, but something about it is soooo hot
One thing I can safely say is that Alina Popa definitely does not look like a man - quite the opposite! She's one of those rare FBBs who can muscular combine size, definition and femininity/beauty/sexiness. Nothing 'manly' about her at all, other than (by some) the large muscles. If other people don't think that look is not attractive, then that's their business. Lots of guys (and gals) on the other hand, do find that look attractive. I've never been ashamed or embarrassed about my love of and attraction to very muscular women - I might hide this from friends and family, but that's more to do with prejudices within society, particularly in the UK, where female bodybuilders and their (male) fans are mostly treated with disdain and disgust, including as you did, getting called 'gay' or suchlike. People should ideally celebrate the things they like, as long as it doesn't harm anyone else.
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I've never been ashamed of what I like, but there was this one time....
A group of us (fans) met a young FBB for the first time and while everyone else exchanged normal pleasantries, one guy - without any kind of indication it was going to happen - grabbed her hand and then sniffed her forearm. Yeah, that actually happened.
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Your issues have called in me more thought on my own.
Well, I admire fbb that have a big femininity like Oana Hreapca, for example.
I like the idea to be lifted or to try the strengh of such beautiful girls, but it is not predominant. I am into the idea of know them as I'd like to do with many other 'normal' girls.
Not afraid to discuss about my taste with others, although, in many cases, for fbb we are only shmoes (not for Oana: she is very kind with her fans). This think causes sometimes in me the idea that my love for fbbs is a voice in the desert that neither society, neither fbb theirselves would really listen to.
Also afraid that the beauty of muscled femininity is still considered a sort of freak and not an option or a style among others. This "rarity" makes more difficult for others to consider our taste a normal thing and not a deviance.
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simply, no.
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I've never been ashamed of what I like, but there was this one time....
A group of us (fans) met a young FBB for the first time and while everyone else exchanged normal pleasantries, one guy - without any kind of indication it was going to happen - grabbed her hand and then sniffed her forearm. Yeah, that actually happened.
Was this the same (close part of the anatomy) incident as the guy who asked if he could smell a certain FBB's armpit? I remember this being reported on DtV some years ago, leading to the FBB in question (I won't name her, but she's attractive, so it wasn't some 'manly' thing the idiot so-called 'fan' wanted) being far less positive and accommodating towards fans.
I know there are some guys (some members here) who have, shall we say, very odd predilictions, but sometimes, like yourself, I hang my head in shame (or do the Picard facepalm) at the attitude of some towards the women, especially when they know full well that making such lurid or uncooth comments or requests would not be welcome, and sometimes leads these women away from the sport. Most FBBs know they are just sex objects for the (mainly) male fans, but they are still people and deserve to be treated respectfully as ladies and athletes.
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I'm certainly not ashamed of it, but then again, I've never told my secret to anyone close to me. My family, friends, and girlfriend have no idea. So I guess I haven't had to deal with any social consequences.
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Ashamed, never. Embarrassed because I was worried what others would think. Most definitely. But that ended by the time I was in my late teens and stopped caring what others think. And now that I'm in my mid 30s I long past the point of even hiding my attraction when I see a muscular lady. I just LOVE the female body in general. Even the women people would consider overweight. I have no particular taste. I love all shapes and all sizes.
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Not ashamed at all.
Very few guys get it, but that's not shocking, and moreover, I'm not trying to flirt w them, so what the hell do I care.
Women will find it odd, too, but only b/c it's a big departure from Established Standards of Female Beauty, which were mostly put in place at a time when women were much more commonly looked at as objects than they are now. I think muscle on women is attractive b/c it shows they'll work really hard for something they want (women don't build muscle and get ripped without a lot of effort), they care a lot about health and nutrition, and are willing to take a risk and sideline traditional notions of female beauty in favor of their goals. I have never had a single woman not respect my opinion when I put it like that. Not one. One time it got me laid.
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Reading post of this topic, I think about my feelings and behavior. And I think that word "embarassed" fit to me much more than "ashamed". I can't say that I didn't care what others think about me, espeshially my family and friends. So I prefer don't say about it. When I try they don't understand me.
May be sometimes such admiration for muscle females can be accepted by society as normal, but now it's deviation and indicates phicological pboblems(from point of view of most people).
I hope the time of more wide acceptance of different interests will come soon.
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Yes going way back to the wpw days where the clerk would give you an odd look keep in mind I was 15 yrs old. Now I could care less My friends know my family members.This was way before the way things are now the vhs. tapes from womens physique world cost 60 to 70 dollars. That's a lot of money for a 15 yr old lol.
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Yes going way back to the wpw days where the clerk would give you an odd look keep in mind I was 15 yrs old. Now I could care less My friends know my family members.This was way before the way things are now the vhs. tapes from womens physique world cost 60 to 70 dollars. That's a lot of money for a 15 yr old lol.I was more embarrassed then ashamed.
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Alina does not look like man she very attrative. The only thing that makes me ashamed is the other so called fans/schmoes, you guys disgust me.
Would you elaborate more on this?
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True story I was in high school and my class went on a field trip. Afterwards our class headed to the mall to eat and shop. As I was working around I stopped at a bookstore looking for some books. I saw my first issue of WPW magazine and brought. I went to the register and the cashier made commits about the magazine which had Lenda Murray on the cover. Then she called another cashier over to look at my magazine. Apart of me wanted to walk out of the store with a bag over my head. Now that I'm older I wished i said, "Bitch!!! Mind Your Business And Ring My Shit UP!!!" :( :look: :hellno:
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Like most here definitely not ashamed but I wouldn't go telling everyone I meet about it. Definitely had moments of shame about it in my teens (fearing it meant I was gay etc, like that matters at all) and made me worry I wouldn't be able to *ahem* perform sufficiently with a, shall we say, regular woman. Luckily that's passed but Alina still gets my dick much harder than idk, Scarlett Johansson ever will.
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I can't lie there was a time when I was a younger I was ashamed of my love for fbb's. Then as I got older I realized that people cant like and love whatever they want to. Since that realization my admiration for fbbs has grown. People will can think what they want, not everyone is open minded. That's why I'm thankful for this forum. A place where I can share my love for the women and the sport as well.
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I dont feel ashamed, but at the same time I do think that society hasnt embraced women with muscle at all, and that affects who knows and how they view me. I have a coworker who trains and she has visible muscle and she has to put up with a lot of negative attention, but mostly she gets possitive comments.
My wife knows that I like muscle and that is about all. I dont boradcast it to the world but I dont hide it either. My parents know but they dont understand it at all
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True story I was in high school and my class went on a field trip. Afterwards our class headed to the mall to eat and shop. As I was working around I stopped at a bookstore looking for some books. I saw my first issue of WPW magazine and brought. I went to the register and the cashier made commits about the magazine which had Lenda Murray on the cover. Then she called another cashier over to look at my magazine. Apart of me wanted to walk out of the store with a bag over my head. Now that I'm older I wished i said, "Bitch!!! Mind Your Business And Ring My Shit UP!!!" :( :look: :hellno:
I feel your pain. When I was 16 I had a job working in this grocery store where on one random day they just so happened to start selling the WPW magazine. At the end of my shift, I immediately grabbed an issue and when I got to the register the one thing I hope wouldn't happen ended up happening. The guy at the register damn near yells out, "EWWWW GROSS!" He just had to make a scene on his displeasure of FBBs and how anyone could like them. I was very embarrassed and then in a split second my embarrassment turned into anger. So I proceeded to make him feel what he did to me. While he was ringing up the rest of my items I started ripping into him. Calling him a fat ass(which he was), talking about his ugly ass haircut that made him look a member of the Beatles during the 60s, and about how he was a guy in his 40s who's only contribution in life was working a register at a shitty little grocery store. People were staring at us but by the point I didn't care. Never said another word to each other after that.
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True story I was in high school and my class went on a field trip. Afterwards our class headed to the mall to eat and shop. As I was working around I stopped at a bookstore looking for some books. I saw my first issue of WPW magazine and brought. I went to the register and the cashier made commits about the magazine which had Lenda Murray on the cover. Then she called another cashier over to look at my magazine. Apart of me wanted to walk out of the store with a bag over my head. Now that I'm older I wished i said, "Bitch!!! Mind Your Business And Ring My Shit UP!!!" :( :look: :hellno:
I feel your pain. When I was 16 I had a job working in this grocery store where on one random day they just so happened to start selling the WPW magazine. At the end of my shift, I immediately grabbed an issue and when I got to the register the one thing I hope wouldn't happen ended up happening. The guy at the register damn near yells out, "EWWWW GROSS!" He just had to make a scene on his displeasure of FBBs and how anyone could like them. I was very embarrassed and then in a split second my embarrassment turned into anger. So I proceeded to make him feel what he did to me. While he was ringing up the rest of my items I started ripping into him. Calling him a fat ass(which he was), talking about his ugly ass haircut that made him look a member of the Beatles during the 60s, and about how he was a guy in his 40s who's only contribution in life was working a register at a shitty little grocery store. People were staring at us but by the point I didn't care. Never said another word to each other after that.
That guy deserved vituperation why does he have to yell about his objections? I never understood if people hate this so much, why do they waste their time spewing displeasure or writing negative comments. I just get tired of closed minded people. Women's Physique World was an excellent magazine by the way.
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True story I was in high school and my class went on a field trip. Afterwards our class headed to the mall to eat and shop. As I was working around I stopped at a bookstore looking for some books. I saw my first issue of WPW magazine and brought. I went to the register and the cashier made commits about the magazine which had Lenda Murray on the cover. Then she called another cashier over to look at my magazine. Apart of me wanted to walk out of the store with a bag over my head. Now that I'm older I wished i said, "Bitch!!! Mind Your Business And Ring My Shit UP!!!" :( :look: :hellno:
I feel your pain. When I was 16 I had a job working in this grocery store where on one random day they just so happened to start selling the WPW magazine. At the end of my shift, I immediately grabbed an issue and when I got to the register the one thing I hope wouldn't happen ended up happening. The guy at the register damn near yells out, "EWWWW GROSS!" He just had to make a scene on his displeasure of FBBs and how anyone could like them. I was very embarrassed and then in a split second my embarrassment turned into anger. So I proceeded to make him feel what he did to me. While he was ringing up the rest of my items I started ripping into him. Calling him a fat ass(which he was), talking about his ugly ass haircut that made him look a member of the Beatles during the 60s, and about how he was a guy in his 40s who's only contribution in life was working a register at a shitty little grocery store. People were staring at us but by the point I didn't care. Never said another word to each other after that.
That guy deserved vituperation why does he have to yell about his objections? I never understood if people hate this so much, why do they waste their time spewing displeasure or writing negative comments. I just get tired of closed minded people. Women's Physique World was an excellent magazine by the way.
There are so few muscle mags that show fbbs. I think Wings of Strength so make their own muscle mag. It can be online for members only. Don't have to worry about selling it on newsstands.
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Anybody else have more stories to share about buying WPW magazines and other people's reaction?
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I remember when I bought a WPW and a Muscular Development, coz it had a write up of Lisa Lewis, at the same time. I was 14 and the woman who served me said to the other woman there, "This is the kind of guy you want to go for when he is older"
At the time I had no idea what they were talking aobut, but it always stuck with me. After a few years though I figured it out
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Actually, yes, I have a story too.
In France, we didn't have WPW, but whe had somm bb mag, like "Le monde du muscle", or french edition of Flex and Muscle and fitness.
One day, as I bought an issue of "Le monde du muscle", with naked Francesca Petijean on the cover, the lady who took my money at the register look at it with disbelief and disgust, like she really found it was gross, and look at me quickly, without saying a word, like "This young kid must be a pervert"...
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Actually, yes, I have a story too.
In France, we didn't have WPW, but whe had somm bb mag, like "Le monde du muscle", or french edition of Flex and Muscle and fitness.
One day, as I bought an issue of "Le monde du muscle", with naked Francesca Petijean on the cover, the lady who took my money at the register look at it with disbelief and disgust, like she really found it was gross, and look at me quickly, without saying a word, like "This young kid must be a pervert"...
My story is very similar, as a young teen I would purchase Flex and Muscle and Fitness from the corner store which at first got me some looks of disgust from the older female store owner and later on I was subjected to giggles when i brought my purchases to the front. I just had to realize that what she felt about my interests didn't matter. It's a shame people can be so closed minded
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Sometimes when I read comments from schmoes I get ashamed or when I get first hand tails of intrusive schmoe behaviour I get pissed
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I'm glad there are people out there with the same interest as me, but do you ever feel uncomfortable with your attraction? I certainly do. I've had this (fetish?) for as long as I can remember, probably since junior high. I've been called gay by the people I've shared my attraction with. Have any of you?
Alina Popa pictures make me so fucking hard and idk why. Looks like a man, but something about it is soooo hot
Of course, man... Be careful who you tell this to - and be mindful of those times when you think it may be okay to say it. Bite your tongue!
I actually started being more accepting of other peoples' preferences/fetishes when I started to think about how many people have a problem with this kind of thing. The people who openly judge another's person's sexual fantasies are either afraid of their own inner desires or just don't have any.
As a reault, I get kind of pissed when someone around me starts bad mouthing any fantasy of any kind - even if it's not mine. I tell them that people can't change things like that - that if a person treats them respectfully then there's no reason to judge them for something they can't change easily. If at all...
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never ever
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yes i am embarrassed to be "found out". i have been extremely
attracted to muscular and strong women since grade school!
i have admitted it to a few women with varied results. am
now over 70 years old but the fascination is as strong as ever
fkelly8064@gmail.com
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It actually makes me feel better to read some of these comments. Like many I was a bit ashamed...I don't know if the word ashamed is the right word but I was definitely guarded about what I felt about muscular women. Whether it was watching Grace Jones in Conan or this one Wrestling Mag I had which I kept because it had an advertisement for Joan Wise Productions which was like a fetish mixed wrestling company. I'd often go to Barnes and Noble and check out the WPW when no one was looking. Sometimes I bought Flex magazine but that didn't make me feel weird because I was a big guy and lifted anyways, and there was a time when they would have some hot fbb's in it like Debbie Muggli and Laura Bass.
Now that I am older I could give two shits. I will join a fbb fan group on facebook and not care who sees it. Many of my friends know of what I like. I mean whatever. You got guys who like the thin stick model chicks who look like skeletons and I'm the weirdo? TBH in my mind, how can muscular women not be considered attractive? These are women who work hard in the gym, or doing other strength exercises, creating a fit toned body. Sure some might be using gear but we don't say anything when guys are clearly doing it.
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Not ashamed, but more sad. It may be my genes or something in my childhood, but this is who I am, we don't decide whether we are born hetero or gay or whatever.
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yes i am embarrassed to be "found out". i have been extremely
attracted to muscular and strong women since grade school!
i have admitted it to a few women with varied results. am
now over 70 years old but the fascination is as strong as ever
fkelly8064@gmail.com
:bravo: 8)
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Not ashamed, but more sad. It may be my genes or something in my childhood, but this is who I am, we don't decide whether we are born hetero or gay or whatever.
The only thing to be sad about is that we do not have muscle women as girlfriends or wives.
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Ashamed or embarrassed by wanting to be with Rapture? You kidding me? But most would consider it "strange"
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Ashamed? Embarrassed? Yes, sometimes. When I was a kid Women's Physique World was still publishing magazines with a poster inside. I think Muscle & Fitness or Muscular Development did too sometimes. Anyway, I use to hang these on my walls. But when friends and family came over to visit they would say "Those women are disgusting" and such. I eventually took the posters down and learned to keep quiet about my admiration for muscular women. As I grew up I wouldn't say I kept my interest hidden from others, just...guarded. If someone asked me directly what kind of women I liked I would say athletic and muscular. But I didn't volunteer this information. Now in the digital age, I love that I can meet people online who are like-minded.
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Absolutely not. Though I doubt I ever profess to the world I have a thing for women with muscles...it's still considered weird and and unnatural, but what I see and what really draws me in is the just how they seemingly exude power, confidence, determination. It's not just in their muscles but in everything they do.
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I think apart from in cases of drug use (or even until it gets to extreme level) a woman still looks like a woman and a man like a man (not that there's anything wrong with being gay either obviously, but being attracted to female muscle is not the same as that).
In the UK at least, it was common for guys/teenagers to fancy female Gladiators from the TV show, even if maybe Jet and the blonde one who's name I forget right now might've been the most popular and had a typical female build but just more 'fit' and with at least noticeable biceps when flexed. Overall the male Gladiators were the really big ones anyway (generally it seemed like male Gladiator vs male contestant was like bodybuilder vs marathon runner or something!) and speculation but I guess more likely some of those were using PEDs rather than some of the women.
I wouldn't say ashamed anyway. Embarrassed potentially, but I am pretty shy anyway in general! Possibly on balance my preference is for strong (with big biceps and also significant calf muscle although that can be present with many 'normal' girls anyway and I prefer it without a really low body fat % anyway I guess) but somewhat typical girls anyway. Not that it's not cool to see bodybuilders too (but back to my original point, Alina Popa is not going to be mistaken for a guy is she in actuality?) and armwrestle with them etc! And I thought I'd read (although maybe a muscle fan wrote it) some comment online indicating most guys prefer at least some muscle and a 'fit' appearance. I know some really don't like the female bodybuilder appearance though that's true.
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Not for a long time. I feel sorry for those that don't like muscular women. They're missing out!
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I used to feel really ashamed about it. But it's 2017, now I'm just ashamed if I see a cute muscle girl and I'm too nervous to talk to her ;) In all seriousness tho, I do know the pain of being attracted to what many of my peers aren't. It can definitely make you feel alone and weird. But at this point that mentally is useless. Life is short, so we might as well ethically act on our desires, so long as it doesn't negatively impact others.
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Definitely don't feel ashamed of my love for muscular women, although it has tended to be a curse through out life;
being pretty much exclusively attracted to them since adolescence. I've never really been sexually attracted to women that are or were not at some point muscular.
It's as much a mental attraction as physical, with their mind set, confidence etc.
Needless to say life has been some what on the lonely side, :'( like many of us the chances of meeting some one are very slim to
non existent. I'd never of got my hands on some beautiful female muscle if it were not for sessions!
It's not the route I wanted to take, but some times in life your choices are limited.
Still 16 years on and I'm enjoying sessions as much as ever :woohoo:
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I'm glad that I'm attracted to muscular women.
I realized decades ago that the only way to be able to talk about liking muscular women and not get scoffed at was to be muscular myself, so I embarked on a weightlifting program that I've never stopped.
Now, at almost 60, I have a physique that is better than the vast majority of 20 year old guys. I get to associate with muscular women at the gym, and they appreciate the interaction, and don't think it's creepy.
I appreciate the hard work and dedication it takes to get into that kind of condition, and they know my admiration is sincere, since I've been through it myself.
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I'm glad that I'm attracted to muscular women.
I realized decades ago that the only way to be able to talk about liking muscular women and not get scoffed at was to be muscular myself, so I embarked on a weightlifting program that I've never stopped.
Now, at almost 60, I have a physique that is better than the vast majority of 20 year old guys. I get to associate with muscular women at the gym, and they appreciate the interaction, and don't think it's creepy.
I appreciate the hard work and dedication it takes to get into that kind of condition, and they know my admiration is sincere, since I've been through it myself.
Good for you man
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I used to be uncomfortable with it, but more so in the past. It's because it's such a niche desire to have that it kind of separates one from the mainstream of society so it can be quite isolating. But it's help me discover loads of other different ways of life and met people of all ages because I haven't been attracted t normal women and therefore never done the whole children and house, career thing etc. although I have plenty spare cash because I haven't engaged in such things.
As I get older, I see it as stupid that I used to be ashamed of it. Why should I be so ashamed of something which I find so totally beautiful and brilliant? Fbb's make me feel amazing. They are amazing. They should be celebrated. Without such women in the world, I'd be one bored and unsatsified man.
We are pioneers I think. Never before in human history have such women existed and we're the first men on the front row of it. Lots of sexual positions which can be achieved with fbb's have never been done before as it's never been possible. All the sexual fantasies are all new, etc, it's all new and exciting. I'm sure that's what drew me to it; it's something completely exotic and unusual. Nothing to be ashamed of unless your personality is built around guilt and shame which would have been formed in early childhood.
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I never have. I am over a certain age now but I always liked tall, busty women with a proportional figure since I was a teenager. Yeah, I like Julie Newmar as Catwoman, Wonder Woman comics (and later the Lynda Carter TV show) and so much more. In fact I liked more mature women who were sure of themselves. I dabbled in role play - off and on - with dominas from the time I was in my 20s until my 40s.
In my 30s I heard from a domina / massuse I knew about female-male wrestling. She did a couple of videos but I never understood the appeal, at least back then. By the time I got to my mid-40s I discovered via the internet all of these wonderful female bodybuilding sites like this one and began sessioning with FBBs. All involve role play, some have involved scissoring (I never thought I'd like that), no competitive wrestling or FS. But all have been exotic and erotic.
As I said, I never had regretted it, maybe because I discovered this as a mature man versus a teen.
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I've been turned on by muscular women since I was a teenager, which is obviously quite far from the teenage ideal of a beautiful woman (I have always been into big breasts also; I think the attractions are related). Of course, now those women that first turned me on would be less muscular than a lot of the crossfit women. It is not something that I share with people. I would admit being into fit, naturally muscular women if it ever came up, but never the huge muscular women that turn me on the most; not sure if the reason is all shame, part shame, or a mixture of shame and disgust. The fact is that for me the fantasy of huge muscular women is far sexier than the reality- drugs, facial hair, fake breasts, etc. I always thought that Betty Pariso was hot until I saw her speak on some HBO doc (I think?) and thought she sounded like a dude; that kind of destroyed my crush on her. I don't think I would be too motivated to come on to a massive muscle woman in person, although I will admit that seeing them lift is pretty hot. As you can see, I am a bit conflicted about my attraction. A long winded answer to explain that yes, I feel some shame. I think.
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Another thing that I love about them is that by and large, they're all exhibitionists. Sure some are more modest than others, but for the most part unless you're Barney Gumble FBB's love hearing about how beautiful their muscles are, and they love knowing how they turn you on. They love having their muscles touched and adored. It's not just for them, just for their health...it's a creation that they're proud of.
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I've been turned on by muscular women since I was a teenager, which is obviously quite far from the teenage ideal of a beautiful woman (I have always been into big breasts also; I think the attractions are related). Of course, now those women that first turned me on would be less muscular than a lot of the crossfit women. It is not something that I share with people. I would admit being into fit, naturally muscular women if it ever came up, but never the huge muscular women that turn me on the most; not sure if the reason is all shame, part shame, or a mixture of shame and disgust. The fact is that for me the fantasy of huge muscular women is far sexier than the reality- drugs, facial hair, fake breasts, etc. I always thought that Betty Pariso was hot until I saw her speak on some HBO doc (I think?) and thought she sounded like a dude; that kind of destroyed my crush on her. I don't think I would be too motivated to come on to a massive muscle woman in person, although I will admit that seeing them lift is pretty hot. As you can see, I am a bit conflicted about my attraction. A long winded answer to explain that yes, I feel some shame. I think.
I agree with Dirks, who just posted while I was responding to Johnny.
My feeling is that if you are respectful of the women you meet - either at shows or in sessions - you enjoy yourself, the ladies enjoy you and you don't let it get out of control emotionally or financially, your fine. I agree that the women who grow facial hair, look or sound like men, those ladies are a turn off to me. But the women who are feminine (but could know you out with a strong look - LOL!), have nice muscles, great curves and even some with fake breasts are wonderful. I'm in a mode this summer where I am probably a little over active online and doing sessions... but it is summer. By the fall and winter I'll cool down. But I'll always have a liking for gorgeous, strong (mentally, emotionally and physically) women over the age of 30 or 35.
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I've been turned on by muscular women since I was a teenager, which is obviously quite far from the teenage ideal of a beautiful woman (I have always been into big breasts also; I think the attractions are related). Of course, now those women that first turned me on would be less muscular than a lot of the crossfit women. It is not something that I share with people. I would admit being into fit, naturally muscular women if it ever came up, but never the huge muscular women that turn me on the most; not sure if the reason is all shame, part shame, or a mixture of shame and disgust. The fact is that for me the fantasy of huge muscular women is far sexier than the reality- drugs, facial hair, fake breasts, etc. I always thought that Betty Pariso was hot until I saw her speak on some HBO doc (I think?) and thought she sounded like a dude; that kind of destroyed my crush on her. I don't think I would be too motivated to come on to a massive muscle woman in person, although I will admit that seeing them lift is pretty hot. As you can see, I am a bit conflicted about my attraction. A long winded answer to explain that yes, I feel some shame. I think.
I agree with Dirks, who just posted while I was responding to Johnny.
My feeling is that if you are respectful of the women you meet - either at shows or in sessions - you enjoy yourself, the ladies enjoy you and you don't let it get out of control emotionally or financially, your fine. I agree that the women who grow facial hair, look or sound like men, those ladies are a turn off to me. But the women who are feminine (but could know you out with a strong look - LOL!), have nice muscles, great curves and even some with fake breasts are wonderful. I'm in a mode this summer where I am probably a little over active online and doing sessions... but it is summer. By the fall and winter I'll cool down. But I'll always have a liking for gorgeous, strong (mentally, emotionally and physically) women over the age of 30 or 35.
Well said. To me as well it's sort of a total package type thing. I've never much cared for those tiny, dainty little women who want to be protected. But a sexy, strong, intelligent muscle girl...she has an aura of power and success. She doesn't need me to protect and provide for her. As a result I'm intrigued and actually want to do those things
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I've been turned on by muscular women since I was a teenager, which is obviously quite far from the teenage ideal of a beautiful woman (I have always been into big breasts also; I think the attractions are related). Of course, now those women that first turned me on would be less muscular than a lot of the crossfit women. It is not something that I share with people. I would admit being into fit, naturally muscular women if it ever came up, but never the huge muscular women that turn me on the most; not sure if the reason is all shame, part shame, or a mixture of shame and disgust. The fact is that for me the fantasy of huge muscular women is far sexier than the reality- drugs, facial hair, fake breasts, etc. I always thought that Betty Pariso was hot until I saw her speak on some HBO doc (I think?) and thought she sounded like a dude; that kind of destroyed my crush on her. I don't think I would be too motivated to come on to a massive muscle woman in person, although I will admit that seeing them lift is pretty hot. As you can see, I am a bit conflicted about my attraction. A long winded answer to explain that yes, I feel some shame. I think.
I think it is less of shame, but more of not wanting to deal with people's criticism. It gets irritating after a while. There is a preference for muscularity levels and even fans themselves may not like bigger women. Not all the large ones are on drugs. I say embrace all fitness levels and models of muscularity. This should include the fitness, figure, physique, bodybuilder, and regular female athlete. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to women like Margie Martin.
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I'm not really ashamed of my attraction except when one of my girlfriends breaks up with me over it, other than that not really ashamed. I think everyone has there own little thing that they get off on.
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I'm not ashamed of it, I just wish I wasn't, because of the inconvenience. There are probably more bald Jewish
hermaphodite Star Trek-loving quadraplegics than female bodybuilders in this country. Only chance you get to see
them is at major shows. And just forget about your chances of dating them.
Again I'm not ashamed of my attraction, but being (strongly) attracted to conventional women would make my
life a heck of lot easier (and more affordable).
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I used to but once I 'broke the ice' and started to date FBBs and muscular women, the feeling of being ashamed dissipated. I would say that the feeling of shame in my younger years was a destructive influence in my life, as I tried to deny the feeling and first married someone who was far from my 'muscular ideal'. Divorce eventually followed and that process for me and others was negative and impoverishing in many ways. Now I am happily married to a muscular woman and she knew from day one that this is something that attracts me. It's not a big deal in our relationship from her point of view as she is naturally muscular and does not need to exercise to stay in amazing shape. But...yeah well I have to say that I let her know every day how sexy and attractive she is...muscles and all.
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I think that things are moving in the right direction. When I see an FBB in public, I make a point (if it's not interrupting) to walk up and say something like "thanks for all the hard work, you look awesome!" I then continue on. I'm not hitting on them, just giving them a compliment. It's tough to judge the looks from others, but I think it's not "why is that freak attracted to her?!?!?" but rather "I wish I had the balls to do that." All women love compliments, especially when they're received in front of other women.
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I feel that if you are confident in yourself, who gives a crap what people think of you? If you like muscular women, just be open about it because the simple fact is that feeling ashamed about it might lead to more destructive actions to yourself.
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I'm embarrassed about it but I don't share it with people mostly because I don't think it's worth sharing. If my friends and family were to find out I'd be embarrassed but I don't think they'd disown me. I just don't want to put myself through the embarrassment for something that I don't view as that important to other areas of my life. I tend to keep things compartmentalized. It's a private thing for me just like everyone has some private area of their life that they don't want to bleed over into other areas. Realistically I'm not going to end up marrying a fbb nor do I particularly want to. For me (with the exception of sessions) it's a fantasy and I'm fine leaving it as just that. If/when I do get married, I'm sure I'll share with my wife but I don't see any reason to make some big deal out of it. I'm not going to expect her to become a bodybuilder just to please me so who else really needs to know? I've always believed that you have a right to privacy behind closed doors and in your head as long as you're not hurting yourself or others.