Would You Break Up If She Didn't Put On Muscle?

[pigi3141]

It's more then only about the body (even I'm totally into muscular girls!). After some time in a relationship there are a lot of things which attracts to a woman, not only the body. We all get older and slimmer, even the biggest girl

[Lnc47]

I've been dating my current girlfriend for 8 years and I love her to death.  Her arms are like noodles and she has the upper body strength of a kitten. 

Yes, I have a deep rooted fantasy and fetish for muscles on women, to an absurd and extreme degree.  But relationships are so much more than just a physical embodiment of desire.  Hell, we're all getting older; skin, hair, even muscles... it all loses its look with time and age.  So if you're going to be with someone for the longterm, you better make sure that you can accept her for the person she is.  And in fact, if you're the type of person that would break up with her over not being able to fulfill your fetish, then she's better off.

For short-term dating or casual flings, hell yeah go for what you like!  But if you want a future with that person, you have to look at the whole picture.

Couldn't agree more. If someone is demanding their gf keep up a certain physique and trying to control their training, then it sounds like all they care about is the muscles and any long-term relationship would almost certainly be toxic. Pick someone who makes you happy above all else.

[dspar]

Break it off because if you it bothers you enough to consider it, it's already over.