I've seen Goddess Severa three times over the year, plus a couple of phone sessions. I'm 6 ft. 1 in. and felt small standing next to her, either in heels or bare feet. I haven't seen her in several years but she still looks great online. I don't do competitive sessions and, thank God with Severa, I said non-competitive within my role play scene. She is a world class athlete and controlled me completely physically - not to mention mentally and emotionally. Is she aloof? I can see that point of view, but with me she was a complete pro, caring and very nice. We got along well and I recommend her highly.