Twice in the last year, I have befriended two very muscular women who are recently divorced. One is late 30's and the other is mid 40's, and they both have kids. They each had husbands who could no longer handle their wives being more muscular and stronger than them. The younger woman told me how her husband was terribly embarrassed that she had defeated him in armwrestling in front of their kids and friends at a house party. Granted, this didn't happen overnight, but after years of persistence and hard training, it finally did. Both tried to get their husbands to train with them, but neither did. The younger woman loves putting men to shame in the gym, and has told me how she gets off on guys trying to use the same weights as her, but are unsuccessful. Makes me wonder how prevelelant this is becoming if I've met two this year in my small social network of friends.