From my observations online through social media networks, online forums and chats, and through in-person events like expos and competitions, I have noticed that the vast majority of the female muscle admirer community (or "schmoes", for lack of a better word) are quite out of shape. In a way, it's a bit ironic given that we are attracted to the extreme opposite of that, and while I know there are exceptions and that there are some fit and muscular schmoes out there, like I said, from my experience most either look very underweight or obese.
Why is that? And no, I'm not saying that being fit is a requirement for being attracted to muscular women (I used to be very overweight and am now fit and have always been into them,) but I am curious why so many of us seem to avoid hitting the weights, especially considering that if you look at most female bodybuilders and muscular women who are in relationships, the vast majority have muscular or fit partners. It's kind of like seeing "unfit" women on dating sites only interested in fit men. You can be attracted to whatever you want even if they don't reflect your current lifestyle, but you're facing an uphill battle. Plus, I see a lot of dudes always asking how to meet muscular women, and the best way to do that is really to actually get involved in your local fitness community.
