Why I am submissive? And why are you if you are too?

[dominant_musclewomen_fan1]

Why am I submissive?

My desire to submit to a dominant woman is rooted in my body image (and body reality!) growing up. As I got to middle school and onwards, I always felt that I was thin and weak for a boy… and I always admired girls who were athletic and strong. My reaction to feeling weak, less than them, could have been to resent stronger girls or be intimidated by them, but instead I felt deeply aroused by them. Even other more subtle things I felt lacking, like not having much body hair and seeing some girls with more, were things I eroticized. Note that I was not generally shy or meek. I was usually the smartest kid in my classes, and I was not afraid of asking questions, answering questions from teachers, and generally have always been very confident in the intellectual “sphere.” But I was always a bit shy around girls due to my feelings of physical inadequacy.

As I reached adulthood, I continued to be skinny: I am 5’10 and my weight fluctuated between 130 and 135lbs when I was 18 to 25, and my only physical activity was occasionally playing soccer or basketball – no gym or lifting weights. So, I realistically thought that some young women could physically dominate me (I lived in a Southern European country during that period, so likely not that many girls were stronger than me as if I had lived in the US at the time, but still some)… I did have that experience with my first girlfriend (a story I may tell another day).

I always try to be nice to women, particularly when I find them attractive, although without crossing any boundaries. I find a woman dominating me with their beauty and sex appeal sexy… I find a woman physically overpowering me and forcing me to do her bidding amazingly hot on another level!!

[FbbLegends]

Why am I submissive?

My desire to submit to a dominant woman is rooted in my body image (and body reality!) growing up. As I got to middle school and onwards, I always felt that I was thin and weak for a boy… and I always admired girls who were athletic and strong. My reaction to feeling weak, less than them, could have been to resent stronger girls or be intimidated by them, but instead I felt deeply aroused by them. Even other more subtle things I felt lacking, like not having much body hair and seeing some girls with more, were things I eroticized. Note that I was not generally shy or meek. I was usually the smartest kid in my classes, and I was not afraid of asking questions, answering questions from teachers, and generally have always been very confident in the intellectual “sphere.” But I was always a bit shy around girls due to my feelings of physical inadequacy.

As I reached adulthood, I continued to be skinny: I am 5’10 and my weight fluctuated between 130 and 135lbs when I was 18 to 25, and my only physical activity was occasionally playing soccer or basketball – no gym or lifting weights. So, I realistically thought that some young women could physically dominate me (I lived in a Southern European country during that period, so likely not that many girls were stronger than me as if I had lived in the US at the time, but still some)… I did have that experience with my first girlfriend (a story I may tell another day).

I always try to be nice to women, particularly when I find them attractive, although without crossing any boundaries. I find a woman dominating me with their beauty and sex appeal sexy… I find a woman physically overpowering me and forcing me to do her bidding amazingly hot on another level!!

I dont think there's anything wrong with having a personal preference. I read something once that often the attraction towards very strong women can be a symbolic female or motherly figure that is extremely capable and figuratively strong in overcoming challenges. The article i read was basically saying men with mothers they perceived  as "weak" may be most likely to be attracted to, conversely, women that symbolically represent this supreme strength. So it takes on a physical manifestation. Now I say all that to say, who tf knows if any of that is true? Guess it depends on the individual.

I find looking at FBBs to be relaxing. I study anatomy so theres that, and im not interested in men so seeing strong women is just more exotic. But yeah in terms of being dominated or whatever I think thats pretty common for men, especially since we are always supposed to be the strong dominant ones. I think it makes sense why men wpuld have fantasies outside the roles prescribed to them by social pressures etc.