P.S. I agree that some other FBB will legitimately reply that they are not Afrika thus still want a deposit. On the opposite side of the equation the prospective guy may say I know guys have been ripped off by others and decline to give a deposit and thus no session happens, that's unfortunate for both sides. That's my point
I've warned the men on this forum regarding one particular women with one single post. I was asked by Marvin for an update. After the update he wondered if I thought I could reach out to other ladies to get my money back so I clarified I had reached out to a couple of ladies so that they knew " one of there own" was poisoning the well with respect to deposits, not that I expected to get my money back. I thought these women who likely don't read this forum would be interested and they have been.