Hi Patricia,
I find it interesting that you defeating a man in armwrestling gives you the feeling of complete dominance over a male body.. Personally I think having men submit to a female's bearhug would be the ultimate show of dominance in strength followed by defeating a man in mercy fingerlock tests of strength. I'm an average sized male, much smaller than you, but I would treasure you showing your strength against me in all 3 of these categories! I only wish we lived closer to each other! Do you have much experience with bearhugs and tests of strength against men?