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Female BodyBuilding & Fitness & Figure - Members Area => Tastes and opinions of Saradas members => Topic started by: rackt3 on September 16, 2019, 06:11:42 am
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Hi all,
So, we're here because we all love strong/amazon women and we're big fans. That said, is it purely fantasy, or would you actually date one and take her home to meet family/friends? I was thinking about this because, I love the fantasy of a woman who's physically superior to me. I'm 6'2, 195lbs but the idea of meeting a woman who's a head taller than me, more muscular with bigger biceps, quads, etc would just be absolutely incredible. In secret.
That said, in real life though, I'd be too embarrassed to actually date someone like that. I wouldn't want us to be stared at, or people talking to me about how small I am compared to my girlfriend and being teased that I better not make her mad...stuff like that. Because in everyday life, I do prefer to be the "man", and being dominant in the sense of having the male role in a relationship. So, I've only ever dated women smaller than I am.
I'm just curious if I'm in the minority here.
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At 6'2 195, finding a women who is a head taller then you and bigger then you, I would say it is impossible, well there may have been a total of three women who have ever been that.
That being said, I would have not problem dating or marrying a bodybuilder or someone who has great size and strength. Though it would be a true odd couple, as I am 6'1 and 400lbs. I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with a fit muscular women. As far as the traditional male and female role situation, most of them women I know who are FBB's or workout that do like men prefer taking the more traditional female roles in the relationship. But that is also a person by person thing. There is no blanket explanation of this situation.
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I have had a few brief relationships with bodybuilders and I always behaved with them as though they were like regular women. Obviously I would tell them how beautiful their bodies were but it was never like a session. When I would be out in public with them I would always feel a little self-conscious about being smaller but like anything else you get used to the idea and it's no longer in the forefront. Since they never lasted very long I never had to introduce them to family and friends but it would be the same. I would be very uncomfortable at first but it would eventually feel normal.
This is a very interesting subject because it applies to men in general since women today have adopted many of the traditional roles of men. An FBB is the most obvious example of role-reversal but women nowadays are cops, firefighters, boxers, politicians, soldiers etc. Hell, they don't even need a man to get pregnant - just his sperm and she can raise a family on her own or with her lesbian partner. Schools are favoring females and treating boys like defective girls and diagnosing them as ADHD and giving them drugs to curb their normal exuberance. There is no longer any such thing as "guy stuff." Anything a man can do a woman can do better or should be permitted to do. The only things men are left with are the bad things that are labelled "toxic masculinity."
What I'm trying to say is that there is nothing wrong with feeling uncomfortable about being seen with a bigger woman. People will say it's a sign of insecurity but in this day and age we have every reason to feel insecure. Just look at that stupid Gillette ad ridiculing men who want to let boys be boys. Just what exactly is the new definition of masculinity?
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Definitely an Intersting Topic...I would Love To Date a FBB
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Married 2 of them lol
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Married 2 of them lol
Go ahead and gloat, why don't cha.
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Definitely an Intersting Topic...I would Love To Date a FBB
We have several more topics just like this.
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Married 2 of them lol
I wish I had waited to get married until I understood what I wanted in a life partner, You are living the dream
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Married 2 of them lol
I wish I had waited to get married until I understood what I wanted in a life partner, You are living the dream
No gloating, I swear to all...I *do* have a pretty good life, I will admit, but this shit is work and has been far, far from perfect. I recently saw a pic of myself from exactly 10 years ago - I have no idea why HS classmates insist on sharing shit like that(!) - and the hair loss and weight gain are well beyond "extreme" in my case.
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Absolutely! But they would have to have a personality that would mesh with mine.
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I wouldn't care about what people would think, as long as I liked a female bodybuilder (and she liked me back), I would definitely date them and be open about it. I don't care about people teasing me about me not being "the man" in the relationship, I find that kind of masculinity toxic so I could write it off completely.
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Most definitely. I’m 5-9, 160 and would love to be in a relationship with a woman 5-9 or taller and 175 pounds or more. I’ve always wanted a woman bigger taller and stronger than me
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I wouldn't give a damn about societal pressures, opinions, whatever. If I could get the chance to marry a woman that at the very least were 1/3 of my fantasies, I'd freaking consider myself more fortunate than Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, etc.
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For me it started with various ladies in the Olympics, so I guess the earliest I would've watched was 1980? As for female bodybuilders specifically, I had seen them on TV for a few seconds or pictures but there was never a special connection in my head there. Then at some point in 1992 or 1993 I saw a photo of Ann-Marie Crooks (don't remember the source) and click, suddenly fbbs were hot for me in their own way. I had actually booked to wrestle Karla Nelsen before that but I just thought of her as a big woman, once I saw that picture of Ann-Marie Karla also became special. So it was a combination of seeing a fbb I found stunning (not that Karla didn't turn me on simply as a woman) and then meeting one in person that closed the deal for good. Not sure why 80s fbbs didn't align things for me but that's how it happened.
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For me it started with various ladies in the Olympics, so I guess the earliest I would've watched was 1980? As for female bodybuilders specifically, I had seen them on TV for a few seconds or pictures but there was never a special connection in my head there. Then at some point in 1992 or 1993 I saw a photo of Ann-Marie Crooks (don't remember the source) and click, suddenly fbbs were hot for me in their own way. I had actually booked to wrestle Karla Nelsen before that but I just thought of her as a big woman, once I saw that picture of Ann-Marie Karla also became special. So it was a combination of seeing a fbb I found stunning (not that Karla didn't turn me on simply as a woman) and then meeting one in person that closed the deal for good. Not sure why 80s fbbs didn't align things for me but that's how it happened.
I'm guessing you posted this in the wrong thread. This isn't how you became attracted to FBB's. This is asking the question, would you date/marry one of them.
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I don't know if dating would be the correct word as there have been two or three ladies with whom I have spent a great deal of time. This goes back over many years as it usually involved attending shows together while one in particular was competing and I was there to support he.
It was always an absolute "blast" associating with other competitors and couples while hanging out together, going out to dinner, etc.
And, in the case of another lady who is long since retired and now married, I was proud to be seen with a 6'2 210 lb lady out in public when we'd spend a couple of days together.
This is why I continue to love this whole industry..because it's one of the most fun, interesting group of people one can ever be around.
So screw what anyone else thinks...they don't what htey're missing :tongue:
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I’ve never dated an FBB as such, but I’ve seen quite a few for dates/dinner etc, sort of pre-dating. I’m an absolute lover of FBBs but have to say at times I felt very awkward. However, after a while I chilled out in most cases. It’s different when the girl is massive though and also a bit ‘roidy’ as you sort of wince thinking they’re being judged by others. But in the majority of cases it’s been fine. I always felt the stares, although after a while it stopped bothering me and all of the girls are used to it and mostly enjoyed it. One thing I would say is that my love of FBBs has always been of the fantasy nature, where they’re the boss etc. I don’t really need to chat about training and their lifestyle, unless it’s very juicy and normally it isn’t. That said, it’d be very difficult and not my outward persona to be totally subservient and when I’ve done that role play in public with FBBs I’ve wanted to hide. I’ve met a few girls that tell me they’ve always totally dominated their partners in private, but most are just ‘normal’ girls with big bodies. I think I’d like to spend a weekend being an abused spouse, but not a full time partner doing humdrum daily things. I’ve clicked personality wise with the ones I’ve seen in dates, which is why we went on a date in the first place. I guess if she and I get on well then the muscles are a fantastic bonus!
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I never cared what others think. So long as she's attractive to me, heck yeah. If she's totally roided out and has a voice like a tuba, I definitely wouldn't date her in the first place. Facial beauty matters. That being said, if personality and face are good, then I definitely wouldn't mind a 7 foot amazon.
If ignorant people wanna stare or comment... their problem, not mine.
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I have always dated taller, it's just something that happened a few times in school and I realized I enjoyed it and have been able to keep it going over the years for whatever reason. If she's interested, are you really going to turn her down in favor of what a bunch of strangers think? The same would certainly hold for smaller (height) bodybuilders if I were into that.
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I wouldn't care, if that's what I'm attracted to that's what I'm attracted to. I like normal women too but something about a woman that lifts just attracts me bc I lift too and know the dedication. In the end it will be her and me, maybe some kids or dogs.
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Yes, I would definitely date/marry a muscular woman and I realize it might get kinda uncomfortable sometimes but if the right woman came along, I`d go for it. I don`t have any hang ups about a woman being bigger than me.
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Like what you like, but be wary who you marry.
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I got married with a taller girl and somehow stronger too ... I am 172cm 68kg and she 180cm 78kg .. and very athletic .. and I love going out in public with her .. I am proud of it. .. and even if she doesn't use her superiority enough (for my taste), if she doesn't want to and well she doesn't want to, if you know what I mean ..😜😜😜
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I am very happily married, love my wife! She is not a FBB but she does work out, and while I would not want to be married to anyone other than her, I would love if she was more muscular. I am not into being seen as a cuck, but having other guys check out my wife is so hot. I would love that. Now, guys who it's not to their taste, that wouldn't bother me, but for those who admire I would hope she would dress the part to show off the muscles.
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I wouldn't care about what people would think, as long as I liked a female bodybuilder (and she liked me back), I would definitely date them and be open about it. I don't care about people teasing me about me not being "the man" in the relationship, I find that kind of masculinity toxic so I could write it off completely.
you sound like a very secure and mature man...this is EXACTLY how it should be...everyone is different and why people feel "ashamed" to be seen with a fbb baffles me...and tbh when men feel "ashamed" to be seen with you its actually an insult...if guys cant admit to liking fbb then they shouldnt get involved with one on a personal level..i feel its pretty selfish to try to hide a girl like she is a dirty secret..any respectful woman will not put up with that...so good on you for knowing what you like and want in life and not care what others think...at the end of the day its your life and no one else can live it for you so live the life u want to lead
Rambofem - I agree, all my friends know I like muscular girls and I am proud to say what I like. Just a rare type of girl here in Yorkshire where I live. I might need to move lol
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An FBB's size or strength wouldn't stop me from dating or marrying them. I find it quite attractive.
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Well... I don't think I would do that. I like huge muscular women. Very much.
But, the life style of the WFBB (and any other pro sportwomen) is not quite.The diet period is a dangerous moment for a couple.
Maybe by not being together all the days is a solution.
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I would kill to date one, but marrying is out of the question. The thing is, the sport will take a toll on your looks and health if pursued for too long.
I've seen plenty of former fbbs at show (including a couple of ex-Ms Olympias) and some of them don't look so good. I would much prefer marrying a non-fbb
who continued to look good and healthy until at least 60, than marrying an fbb who looks spectacular for a decade or so and then absolutely terrible after that.
So dating would be the way to go, in my case. No further than that.
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Of course I would date/marry them if we got on. I have never cared what other people think. A lot of so called ' normal women ', think it is strange that men want to build muscles. Give me a woman, who shares the same interests as me. I used to weight train with a female who was just as strong as me. We would go out together as friends. She was built like a power lifter, and we used to wrestle fight on occasion in my bedroom. Stupidly I never had sex with her. She wanted to get more serious. I was not ready to settle down with just one woman yet.
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Absoulutely!!! Im a dyed in the wool omega male and have recurring fantasies about a woman taller and /or stronger than me taking an interest in me and falling in love with me. If a woman bodybuilder were to propose marriage to me. I would definetely accept.
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I would marry for sure. I say that not meaning it would just be automatic though. I would want to truly want to be with her for her, not just because she is a fbb. If i wasn't already married and i was looking i'd probably start looking in the gym.
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I would definitely date a woman with muscles. Marry is a much different question - this is more about the ability to get on with someone etc...
The idea of it is good but I would likely be too conscious of the girls body to be myself in all honestly. Thinking realistically, I would probably struggle with the lifestyle of girls in really great shape. I like the odd blow out with food and drink!
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I would not want to get with one who competes. I've said before that there is a difference between a woman who lifts for herself and a woman having to deal with the BS of judging, diets, etc. Not competing means she can get as big as wants or not
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Like what you like, but be wary who you marry.
I found a woman
I felt a true love
She was everything
I'd ever been dreaming of
But she was bad, I didn't know it
Her pretty smile never did show it
All I knew is what I could see
And I knew I wanted her for me
Took her home to mama
Mama, wanna see my future bride
Well she looked at us both
Then she called me to her side
She said son, take time to know her
It's not an overnight thing
Take time to know her
Please don't go rushin to do your thing.........
-Percy Sledge
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I'm not a very big guy so I'm pretty used to girlfriends being bigger and stronger than me... I've never had a problem with it. I'm well aware of what my strengths and weaknesses are, it's not anything that causes me to feel bad about myself. My current girlfriend is a bodybuilder and I can't say that I've heard any negative comments because of that. In short, the answers to the questions are: yes and yes. :)
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Provided she fulfilled the rest of my requirement and I hers yes.
Her being a muscular and stronger than me would be a huge bonus but not a qualifying factor.
I dated a girl who was strong, I'm not sure she was stronger than me but she could defenitly beat me at armwrestling quite easaly, infact she could beat my brother who weighs 25% more than I do, but I liked to believe that she had much stronger arms than I.
We dated for 6 years but we had a few issues between our studies and our commitments. When we had the same commitments we had a great time together but eventually that changed du to our studies and thing went south from their. To be honest I was hoping to push through that period and get going again but it didn't happen.
So yes, I'd defnitly marry a stronger muscular women. I'm more a fan of strenght than muscle but they ussually come together. and I'd enjoy it and admire her for it but it's not on the short list of requirement I have.
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I wouldnt marry or date someone just because they were built. But if we meshed and got along, sure
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I would only engage in a relationship if it turns out that we are right for each other. The only problem that I may run into if my companion was built would be my family because the sight of a remotely muscular woman grosses them out. Since I have been around quite a few and even been friends with some of these women, it does not bother me. Again, I wouldn't date her exclusively for her being muscular as others have mention.
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I would date one. However, marriage I would be cautious about. That goes for any woman. I would be fine in a long term relationship, but marriage never appealed to me.
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I would definitely want to date and marry a fbb, because I love muscular girls. The more muscular the better. I also have to like her of course
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Date of course, I'm attracted to them and if one is attracted to me then awesome. We have to get along and have similar goals in life. As long as she isn't always competing I'm fine with it. I've lifted serious so I know the dedication it takes. If I like her for her not just her body then for sure marry and possibly knock up if she wants. Screw what people say I'd be the one dating and marrying her not them.
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ummm YES
I want to get massive muscles along side one. Both of us training all day, doing roids, eating, posing, repeat repeat. I love the bodybuilding lifestyle and I would want to share in it with a muscle woman. It's good to have mutual interests!
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I am a 5'7 140lb guy and there several woman taller and stronger,I wish I could date or marrey one. Lauren Riffel,slava galagan,Jozeffa Alajahji,L'asticostaud and Caitlin Thom
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I absolutely would. Life is too short to worry about other peoples' opinions. Do what you can to ensure your own happiness!
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I totally would date/marry her, no question. Either the people around me accept it or the can keep their opnion to themself ;)
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Hello everybody. I'm not sure if I would marry an FBB. It must be very difficult to carry the day with a person who trains at such a high level. Six meals a day, supplementation, a lot of discipline and behavior, I would never allow myself to share anything with friends or family. It is very humble opinion. So I will enjoy them occasionally. Greetings.
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I would definitely date or marry an FBB but as much as I hate to say it, I wouldn't want them to be freakishly big. That being said, i feel like most FBBs aren't even that noticeable for their muscles out in public unless they're wearing gym clothes and I've heard this from a number of FBBs who constantly get the question of "what do people say about your muscles in public?". Although I will say, bringing an FBB GF around my family would be weird since they're more traditional but i just don't think i could pass up such an opportunity!
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YOo might want to check out the threads in the "Benefits that only this sport can give" section. Older women that are far sexier than 90% of their untrained contemporaries.
I would kill to date one, but marrying is out of the question. The thing is, the sport will take a toll on your looks and health if pursued for too long.
I've seen plenty of former fbbs at show (including a couple of ex-Ms Olympias) and some of them don't look so good. I would much prefer marrying a non-fbb
who continued to look good and healthy until at least 60, than marrying an fbb who looks spectacular for a decade or so and then absolutely terrible after that.
So dating would be the way to go, in my case. No further than that.
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I suppose marriage to an fbb depends on how you look beside each other.
If you're also a very strong guy (whether ripped or just big) and can handle her, then her muscles are effectively just an aesthetic element of your relationship and you still look like a couple when you're out.
If you're an average guy though and she has far superior muscular development to you (which I think is what the OP has in mind) then her muscles would alter the whole dynamic of a man/woman relationship, and I don't think you're compatible as a long-term couple.
It can be embarassing for you in public, and there would be something missing for her. Most women want their man to be a man.
You will find exceptions if you sift through the relationships of enough muscle women, but what you'd find there is that the man is giving her something else, something outside the physical realm.
He might get a hard on because she's so strong, but she's not going to get turned on just because he's so weak!
We can dream though, and of course mismatched couples do have short fun flings with each other.
I've been overpowered by a few girlfriends in my time, usually without them meaning to and none of them were particularly impressed by the situation or saw it as a kink they might like to explore. And none of these flings lasted that long.
Even if women enjoy showing off their strength initially, it doesn't generally turn them on that they proved stronger than expected and they can be a bit dubious about the man appearing to enjoy it too much.
I've specifically had one woman complain that I seemed to pay more attention to her muscles than her boobs!
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I suppose marriage to an fbb depends on how you look beside each other.
If you're also a very strong guy (whether ripped or just big) and can handle her, then her muscles are effectively just an aesthetic element of your relationship and you still look like a couple when you're out.
If you're an average guy though and she has far superior muscular development to you (which I think is what the OP has in mind) then her muscles would alter the whole dynamic of a man/woman relationship, and I don't think you're compatible as a long-term couple.
It can be embarassing for you in public, and there would be something missing for her. Most women want their man to be a man.
You will find exceptions if you sift through the relationships of enough muscle women, but what you'd find there is that the man is giving her something else, something outside the physical realm.
He might get a hard on because she's so strong, but she's not going to get turned on just because he's so weak!
We can dream though, and of course mismatched couples do have short fun flings with each other.
I've been overpowered by a few girlfriends in my time, usually without them meaning to and none of them were particularly impressed by the situation or saw it as a kink they might like to explore. And none of these flings lasted that long.
Even if women enjoy showing off their strength initially, it doesn't generally turn them on that they proved stronger than expected and they can be a bit dubious about the man appearing to enjoy it too much.
I've specifically had one woman complain that I seemed to pay more attention to her muscles than her boobs!
I've specifically had one woman complain that I seemed to pay more attention to her muscles than her boobs!
........... And how to avoid it. I have no doubt that the exact same thing would happen to me.
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Yes. If we were in love, and got along, for sure.
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I think it could be one of those things whereby it seems great on paper but the reality is different.
I think for me it’s best kept as a distant fantasy. Training would take priority in her life….possibly.
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Of course ,would try this out......would be a great adventure of course...!
Would really try to get as fit & bulky so that I can cpoe with her physically as good as possible ...
...must really be great, furoious ,and intoxicating sex...!!
what concerns emotional attachment ,you`ll never know what this might come out - (as in every relation...)
but would be very tolerant and allegedly more capable of suffering in such a relationship
finally ,an intelletual accordance might be also nice......would make such relation quite perfect,even quoite un eathly...
(but would not be first interest ,clearly physical attraction ,and sensual exchange mixed with tough interaction (wrestling,dominationplay)
would be first highlight) :)
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In the past I would have said without hesitation: yes, of course! But now I'm not so sure. Now I realize I couldn't keep up with them if they were very into sports and super high energy. I dont' think I'd be able to keep up with their diet. I'd probably feel very inferior and insecure even though I like how they are, and probably embarrassed in public, even though I know I shoudln't be. I would probably struggle with them always being hit on everywhere or catcalled or all manner of bullshit/harassment. I dont' knwo how I would feel if I were horny for her all the time being around her, if that would ultimately be a good thing because I think it would be too distracting for me to do anythign else in life or career. Lastly, and most importatnly, I dont have anything of value to offer them.
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I m married one… 😜 I m 5’6 150 and my beautiful wife is 6’ 170… and do a lot of sports..
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In the past I would have said without hesitation: yes, of course! But now I'm not so sure. Now I realize I couldn't keep up with them if they were very into sports and super high energy. I dont' think I'd be able to keep up with their diet. I'd probably feel very inferior and insecure even though I like how they are, and probably embarrassed in public, even though I know I shoudln't be. I would probably struggle with them always being hit on everywhere or catcalled or all manner of bullshit/harassment. I dont' knwo how I would feel if I were horny for her all the time being around her, if that would ultimately be a good thing because I think it would be too distracting for me to do anythign else in life or career. Lastly, and most importatnly, I dont have anything of value to offer them.
After the honeymoon phase you wouldn’t be horny for them all the time. I mean you’d love it obviously when you did do stuff in the bedroom, but it wouldn’t be like killing you. I’m guessing you’re not an athlete? And definitely not a serious one? Because I bet that being an athlete would help a lot. I definitely would date fbbs, and I think part of that is I was a very high level soccer player before getting injured. I also train in a bodybuilding and powerlifting type style, weigh out a good portion of my food, prep meals, etc. I’d enjoy the lifestyle and the stares of her being really muscular. She most likely wouldn’t be bigger than me if it was me right now either which I think would help. She might be pound for pound stronger and more shredded or something but she definitely wouldn’t be bigger. They really don’t need another bodybuilder though. Just someone that’s also active and can enjoy their active lifestyle.