Cool thread.. I saw Amber Deluca in the original post.. She's gracefully lifted a lot of wimps over the years.
I've never really understood the liftees that wear masks, there's no shame in being hoisted by a strong, beautiful woman.
You answered your own question calling them wimps and it's not widely accepted probably never will be for guys to be wimps especially next to women, men are usually bigger and stronger for most mammalian species for a reason. In a way though this perception of FBB fetish for gender reversal benefits them as it's very niche, lower supply maens higher prices. It's funny you said there's no shame yet you first call them wimps, that's telling!
I think you are complicating the matter, wimps, schmoes are terms commonly used in this industry, I know their literal meaning is negative but many people use them in general, so more like generalization. Call them whatever you like I personally they are one of the luckiest beings.