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Title: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: titomaas80 on January 16, 2017, 06:55:32 am
As opposed to all of the other crazy kinds of fetishes and attractions that people can have; in my book, being attracted to women with muscle is much more normal. It personally bugs me if other people or family were to find out about this little "quirk that I have and for this reason I have only allowed very few people know about it. (I think) It is only taboo to be attracted to muscular women because the general public associates muscles with men. Aka if a girl is muscular then she is manly.

I've also found myself in a fair number of situations where people around me have said "ew that girl has too much muscle its gross" and its not like I take the time to openly object and start a conversation about how I think she looks good and that girls with muscle look good in general.

One time my friend said to me "this kids brother is so unlucky" and i said "why?" he then responds "his last two girlfriends ended up getting into bodybuilding"

At that point I just said "oh...yea unlucky" but what I was really thinking was "are you f***ing kidding me what do you mean unlucky?!?! where can I find two consecutive girlfriends that are bodybuilders"

I'd like to hear from other people though. Does it/would it bug you having other people find out that you like muscular women? What are some situations that you've got in where people found out or you told them?

 :singing:
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: beowulff on January 16, 2017, 02:38:12 pm
Everyone knows I like muscular women.
I make a point to befriend all the muscular women at my gym.
I always go out of my way to complement them on their conditioning.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: 87fg on January 16, 2017, 04:46:12 pm
I see why it would bother you that people know you like muscular women. The only reason it would bother a person is if they felt some kind of shame. Seeing as society always wants to impose some form of conformity, many may hide their love of muscular women. They don't just want us to think alike; society wants us to like the same things. It is a tragedy that so many people are closed minded about different things. As for myself, it people know about my muscular woman approval I don't care. I can handle the ostracism. The best way is to respond with rational arguments and that ends the problem. Normally the people who show such disdain for muscular women either have sexist beliefs, are closed minded, or  are just regular bullies. I can understand why some may not like the look out of personal preference, but insults and vituperation take it to another level. You should never be bothered that some people know you like muscular women. 
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: rom553 on January 16, 2017, 05:48:58 pm
That is a good question. It's not so easy to answer. I have always liked fit & toned women even before women got into serous weight training. I don't know why, but I just do. I think a person either likes the look or doesn't.
I have always been bothered by the way people react to women with muscle & the people that like them. I generally don't let others know of my preference unless I sense a sympathetic soul. I would like to know why some people find it unattractive & in some cases disgusting? We human beings are fascinating creatures.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: Elroy8 on January 17, 2017, 06:56:14 pm
Almost everyone who knows me (including my wife) knows that I love fitness women, or women in great shape. I have never let any of them know that I also love FBBs though. Unfortunately, that seams to be where society has drawn the line. For example, It seams fairly acceptable these days to watch a Mrs Fitness contest, but as soon as you watch Mrs. Olympia, you are weird. I would like to see that change in my lifetime, but I doubt we will be so lucky.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: shimmer1 on January 18, 2017, 08:28:56 am
Dont think there has ever been a better and easier time in history to say you like muscular women. Insta**** has thousands of buff women with sometimes millions of followers. Crossfit boxes are full of musclebound girls, and even mainstream womens magazines are starting to get on it, versus the bi annual article of shock journalism of "I was anorexic now I am superhuge' type of crap.

Serously dont worry about it, but you should also try and be inspired by them and get into a gym or crossfit box and do something. It will always be seen as a bit weird if you are 100 pounds over weight and lusting after them but no one will bat an eyelid if you train and show your thing.

I am 42, be thankful if you are way younger you didnt have to stand in a newsagent with a female BB magazine in the 90's cos you couldnt get your fix anywhere else and get weird looks from the newsagent and the person behind you, that was really confronting lol.

Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: shimmer1 on January 18, 2017, 08:30:05 am
above meant to say I N S T A but some reason it says saradas.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: NinjaStar on January 18, 2017, 02:47:56 pm
Not at all.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: knufflschmoe on January 24, 2017, 08:59:04 pm
 ??? must admit ,that I´M not very confident on this subject,because in my environment it`s not at all
accepted- many people think it`s perverted ! , much less then being gay I`d say  ... perhaps you call it "the new
gay" 
think I am quite a bit ashamed when being "caught" , so for example, when my computer needs an ID specialist to resolve a malfunction
I`m a bit in discomfort
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: ilovefbbs95 on January 24, 2017, 09:58:23 pm
I certainly wouldn't go out my way to let people know but if someone were to find out i think i'd be ok with it. Little embarrassed at first but unless they went around telling everyone it'd pass.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: yin-master on January 26, 2017, 10:59:24 am
I must to do try to keep it hidden, my passion for muscular women.
I've been a follower for yrs.speaking of magazines, I use to get funny looks but it didn't stop me collecting them.but one day I got caught out.I use to keep the mag hidden in places,but one of the kids found it.the household found out.even though I got rid of the mag.but the little #@&/ ,big mouth, had told the house.laughter and questions followed..
So even now I feel embarrassed lol
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: uno987 on January 26, 2017, 01:53:54 pm
Not really ... I share the same view on the subject as ilovefbbs95 .. :hellno: :shhh: :what: :cool2:
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: schillster1 on January 26, 2017, 02:24:10 pm
Ehhh, they just look at me strange, and we push on.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: asapferg on January 26, 2017, 03:29:07 pm
Some of my friends know I'm a fan of ladies with muscles. They think I'm gay. How can I be gay if they are women. If i like men with muscle that would make sense.  :D
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: jg300 on January 27, 2017, 06:15:22 pm
Unfortunately, many people like to judge others who do not think like them and/or do not have mainstream ideas. It is for this reason that I am hesitant to let others know that I like women with muscle. It is also the reason why I started a thread (under "General Chat") about opening up to others about my love for muscular women.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: fredzeppelin on January 27, 2017, 06:29:59 pm
I am 42, be thankful if you are way younger you didnt have to stand in a newsagent with a female BB magazine in the 90's cos you couldnt get your fix anywhere else and get weird looks from the newsagent and the person behind you, that was really confronting lol.

It is amazing that we went from that to daily updates of fbb material on the net (from videos to artwork) in a
span of 20 years. 
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: jdg130 on February 02, 2017, 09:56:59 am
I wish I could say I am cool with everyone knowing that I like it but my experience has been somewhat negative. One of my best (non sexual anymore) friends is a woman who was always muscular and got way bigger after we stopped hooking up. She got the standard negative comments "she looks like a man" (she is still drop dead gorgeous...) and when I defended her I got called many of the names in the book (gay etc...) I fought back. Now there are two other women in my life who have competed in IFBB contests (which is way further than my ex) and I am sort of hesitant to say that I am proud of them and how beautiful I think they are. I will stand up for them, but it is hard. It irritates me far more that people judge you for liking muscular women than that they just know. Done bearing soul....
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: Highprotein on February 02, 2017, 04:03:37 pm
It makes me angry to hear about all the guys who have been called,"gay," by idiots when they profess that they like muscular women. I dealt with that too. Why would we be gay ? Not "Gay" as in happy but "Gay" as in craving a man's dick? Makes no sense.

Now I've been married to a bodybuilder for years and NO ONE says that to me. Behind my back, I know people whisper, but it's only behind my back. I train too  and most people are reluctant to take a chance saying anything negative, nevermind insulting me to my face. Last fall, at a neighbor's  party, a visiting friend of theirs was gawking and talking to another neighbor of mine about how huge my wife was. He didn't realize I was behind him nearby. Instead of being a jerk, I listened, rather than try to surprise him and suppress the conversation. Really... he was a slight guy and my wife weighed about as much as he did. With her tank top on, her muscle and vascularity were very apparent to everyone and I could see how he might have been feeling inadequate. At this party were a number of fireman, policeman, myself and other guys too who were all way more fit than he was, which I think added to his feelings of"smallness". His wife was actually talking to my wife about working out and I think the admiration she was showing her at  that moment also bothered him. The slight guy was saying something like,'"She has so much muscle, how could any man like that," when my neighbor who was with him realized I was nearby and she tried to change the subject. She looked panicked when she looked at me and she said,'Well, to each his own. Hi!"

I smiled wide and said,"Hi! Yea! To each his own!"  Then he saw me and turned red, and realized I might have heard him. I could tell he was a intimidated and worried what was going to happen next . I wasn't going to be a stereotypical meathead and say something like,"Are you talking about my wife?"   Stupid.

I let it ride. I just said,"T is pretty solid, isn't she?"  "She's never short of new fans - like your wife! (who was laughing with my wife.)" Anyways, I let it go.

I think people don't know how to react. I think a lot of guys don't like muscular women - they just don't. That's OK. I think, though, that many find themsleves getting turned on and don't completely understand why. Then I think they worry about why they feel that way, and coupled with self-doubt about their own masculinity suddenly contrasted by a muscular woman, these guys tend  immediately 'project'.   It think there is latent fear to confront a muscular woman but it's easier to accuse guys like us, who are with them, that we must be abnormal or gay.  Does that make sense?

I've never heard haters say anything to women (muscular). They won't say anything to another male bodybuilder either...but to a normal guy they'll look for "validation" to remove feelings of their own inadequacy and that includes putting down guys who like muscularity on women as gay or perverted.

My wish is that more guys be honest and not be as worried about what people think of our tastes. I think it diminishes the wrong notions about us and supports the women who train hard. Good thread.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: muslmstr on February 02, 2017, 04:39:39 pm
For me, it is trying to understand it.  It's one thing to find a woman attractive.  I see a lot of attractive women.  But I am not aroused by them.  I am aroused just by looking at a muscular woman and I don't really understand why.  Now, some may say "why ask why?  It's simply the way you are wired." Perhaps I will never find a reason why.  But it does make me uncomfortable at times. 
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: topdogg17 on February 02, 2017, 04:45:20 pm
It did bother me at one point a long time ago. But then I decided to grow the heck up and accept the fact that I like muscular women and it makes me happy. What really got me to wake up is seeing some of my female college friends hit the weights and hit them hard. It made the acceptance that much better and I'm able to talk to them more about the female muscle world. I can't say the same for a lot of my family, though, but that's okay. I can live with that. They still love me regardless, and I still love them.
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Post by: fbbfan23432 on February 02, 2017, 11:51:29 pm
Only to the extent people think its a fetish in which case you wouldnt want anyone to know about your sexytime habits.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: jg300 on February 03, 2017, 06:37:43 am
Topdogg17,  were your female college friends athletes or just wanted to build muscle? I wonder what reaction they got from other people and what they thought about it.

People have their own preferences and it is a blessing to find other people who share the same preferences and can have a good conversation about it. If you are still in touch with them, do they still continue to lift weights?
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: topdogg17 on February 03, 2017, 06:50:08 am
Topdogg17,  were your female college friends athletes or just wanted to build muscle? I wonder what reaction they got from other people and what they thought about it.

People have their own preferences and it is a blessing to find other people who share the same preferences and can have a good conversation about it. If you are still in touch with them, do they still continue to lift weights?

They were college friends and all of them just happened to like lifting. In fact, I have a couple of friends who during college didn't even like looking at weights, but since they graduated and started their own careers, they got bitten by the fitness bug and can't get enough of working out. One of those ladies that was afraid of lifting back in the day...is now a personal trainer. :) Again, family seems to be the only ones that I haven't flat out come out to about liking fit women, but seeing friends from college and high school has made me feel far less of a weirdo as I can actually communicate with them on this without feeling weird about it.

To answer your question about still keeping in touch with them, yes, I still do that. In fact, the muscle world has actually made my connections with many of them stronger (no pun intended). ;)
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: jg300 on February 03, 2017, 09:42:56 am
Thanks for sharing your story. You are blessed to have many friends who are into lifting and who you can open up to about your interest. I have a few more questions out of curiosity. I am trying to understand girls who like to lift and unfortunately I do not have many of them in my circle of friends.

1) How would you describe their appearance? I am particularly curious about how their arms look when flexed and unflexed (e.g. slim arms unflexed but high biceps peak that look like a baseball when flexed).
2) Do they like to show their muscles to people in public or only do so in private?
3) Do they like lifting for general health and fitness, want to be strong, and/or because they like the look of having muscles?

By the way, I gave you good karma for your previous posts. :-)
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: topdogg17 on February 04, 2017, 06:29:13 am
Thanks for sharing your story. You are blessed to have many friends who are into lifting and who you can open up to about your interest. I have a few more questions out of curiosity. I am trying to understand girls who like to lift and unfortunately I do not have many of them in my circle of friends.

1) How would you describe their appearance? I am particularly curious about how their arms look when flexed and unflexed (e.g. slim arms unflexed but high biceps peak that look like a baseball when flexed).
2) Do they like to show their muscles to people in public or only do so in private?
3) Do they like lifting for general health and fitness, want to be strong, and/or because they like the look of having muscles?

By the way, I gave you good karma for your previous posts. :-)

Thank you for the karma! :) My posts here are nowhere near as good as others who have posted earlier, but I appreciate the love all the same.

I'll answer all of your questions in order

1) By appearance, while they are not bodybuiler-esuqe, they definitely stand out from other women I know. They looked toned and don't mind wearing clothes that bring out their physiques more.
2) I answered that with the first one. ;)
3) They lift for all of the reasons you mentioned.

To me, it's just one of those things you just can't force a woman to like. They need to discover it for themselves. If they love it, that's awesome! If not, that's fine, too. If you want to bring it up to a woman, ease into it, don't go balls out right away. That's asking to be shut off.

Again, thank you for the reply to my stories, and you get karma as well. :)
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: muslmstr on February 05, 2017, 07:18:38 pm
I wish I could say I am cool with everyone knowing that I like it but my experience has been somewhat negative. One of my best (non sexual anymore) friends is a woman who was always muscular and got way bigger after we stopped hooking up. She got the standard negative comments "she looks like a man" (she is still drop dead gorgeous...) and when I defended her I got called many of the names in the book (gay etc...) I fought back. Now there are two other women in my life who have competed in IFBB contests (which is way further than my ex) and I am sort of hesitant to say that I am proud of them and how beautiful I think they are. I will stand up for them, but it is hard. It irritates me far more that people judge you for liking muscular women than that they just know. Done bearing soul....

K, brother.  I appreciate it.  I feel that same way. 
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: muslmstr on February 05, 2017, 07:21:27 pm
??? must admit ,that I´M not very confident on this subject,because in my environment it`s not at all
accepted- many people think it`s perverted ! , much less then being gay I`d say  ... perhaps you call it "the new
gay" 
think I am quite a bit ashamed when being "caught" , so for example, when my computer needs an ID specialist to resolve a malfunction
I`m a bit in discomfort

Thanks for being open about it.  One thing I can say about this forum is that it does provide a place to release that tension with others who feel the same way.  I think it goes without saying that we who admire muscular women are looked at as weird.  And that is compounded when you are married!  Thanks for the thread. 
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: hannahandlaura on February 10, 2017, 09:14:52 pm
No, i like the stronger women, i don't believe in having to go along with one way of thinking over another, cultural differences which i enjoy when travelling
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: Tomd1 on February 25, 2017, 01:10:36 pm
I wouldnt tell anyone im into fbb / amazon women.

They wouldnt get it. I stil think its a light taboo for sime reason.

However, more & more women are into abs / toning up for sure. Well over here anyway.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: Tiberius on February 25, 2017, 01:21:19 pm
I dont think it is so much a taboo as that the people who are not into it feel free to hold that against somebody because they can. Also not everybody is into female bodybuilders the same way. Some men just like the bodytype but are otherwise pretty mainstream when it comes to women. Others like the idea of a woman stronger and bigger than they are or at least as strong.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: Tomd1 on February 25, 2017, 02:50:41 pm
True above, "taboo" probably too strong a word but you get the idea.

But wouldnt change my preferences for the world ;)
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: BennyBen@ssi on February 25, 2017, 08:31:27 pm
I think the problem is not necessarily with the women having a lot of muscle.


Its more the face/hair/voice that people find offputting.

Because then they think you kinda like men, because the doping has a virilizing effect.

Oh, and of course a lot of guys like big fluffy asscheeks and big soft tits. Thats difficult when a girl is ripped.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: OldSchmoe67 on February 26, 2017, 05:55:17 pm
I don't care what anyone thinks about it. I also don't simply go around trumpeting my sexual or aesthetic preferences. That's tactless and tasteless. Most people couldn't care less about that. I was afraid to tell anyone when I was young but, much like a previous poster stated, they're women, so if someone believes that I'm gay or whatever for liking a certain kind of woman, then they are, to some degree, homophobic, irrationally skeptical or at least homo-paranoid. If it disgusts them, I have no problem with that. Plenty of men out there like gigantic fat women, bony women, unusually tall women, women with big feet, hairy women, whatever...

I will defend muscular women, or my taste for them, aggressively if the occasion presents the need, and that seldom happens anyway.

There are more muscular women today than at any time in human history. Let's encourage it! It has finally become cool in many ways.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: Ozzyfm on February 27, 2017, 10:52:36 am
I guess this is a subject that is frequently talked about, here and there, so I'll may repeat a few things that I already said.
Sorry for those who already know my point of view.

Until I was in my mid 20's, no one knew that I loved muscular women, even less that I loved huge freaky monsters women that barely looked like girls.
But one day, I've decided to be open about it, and tell it to all my friends and family. I have to say I didn't tell the whole truth, and just speak about about taste for fbb's.
Because they loved me, and probably because they're open minded persons, they had not problem with that. From time to time, I let some new people to know about it, when I think they could be cool with it. All my gf knew about it, included my current one.

BUT... As I said, I just told them I love women with muscles, not that I m totally obsessed and addicted to them! I didn't speak of my love for manly, jacked, ripped women. Some of you know what I love, and they're not women anymore, at all. Furthermore, since I started to dive deeper into this obsession, I frequently discover new thigs for me, that coudn't be understadable I suppose. I mean, in this wonderrdul site dedicated to women with muscles, I sometimes feel I'm extreme and even some guys can't understand my tastes. So, imagine how my friends would react!

I suppose if I'd be truly honest about my real tastes, it would be harder for them to accept it... So I guess I never tell them the whole truth.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: Rototo on February 27, 2017, 12:59:57 pm
I believe that when you say “I love muscular woman”, this mean different kinds of attractions. Just read posts here : even among female muscle lovers, you have different tastes in muscle mass, feminity, shape, definition or relationship, those who like being dominated often don’t understand those looking for gfe. Generally, it’s more or less easy to talk about your preferences in public, depending on whether they are shared by more or fewer people. I feel comfortable with saying that I find women athletes muscles sexy, not that I’d like to suck Ms Olympia’s two inches clit !
It’s the same about politics or art, generally you talk with people you understand. You wouldn’t confess that you like bullfights to anybody. Fbb is more sensitive because it’s basically about sex, and it’s unusual to associate muscle and feminity. I don’t feel so and will tell the same than Davic C Matthews in an interview I read, I find sexy as well big tits and big biceps. But I will only tell this in private.


Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: 87fg on March 08, 2017, 04:43:57 pm
I find it lugubrious that society imposes so much conformity, that we have to like the same things. I'm glad that I like muscular women and see no reason to hide it. Neither should anyone on this forum feel strange about it. I guess it is similar to how people feel if you ask them do they watch pornography. They try to hide it, but it is prevalent so someone is consuming these materials. I mean look at all the sites and forums devoted to muscular women. I think there are more secret admirers than we think.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: Adam_S on March 08, 2017, 10:07:43 pm
Dont think there has ever been a better and easier time in history to say you like muscular women. Inst@gram has thousands of buff women with sometimes millions of followers. Crossfit boxes are full of musclebound girls, and even mainstream womens magazines are starting to get on it, versus the bi annual article of shock journalism of "I was anorexic now I am superhuge' type of crap.

Serously dont worry about it, but you should also try and be inspired by them and get into a gym or crossfit box and do something. It will always be seen as a bit weird if you are 100 pounds over weight and lusting after them but no one will bat an eyelid if you train and show your thing.

I am 42, be thankful if you are way younger you didnt have to stand in a newsagent with a female BB magazine in the 90's cos you couldnt get your fix anywhere else and get weird looks from the newsagent and the person behind you, that was really confronting lol.

Agree w this 100%. I'm almost 40, have liked the look of muscle on women since before adolescence, and yeah, right now has gotta be the best time. Despite FBB contests are moving more towards physique and less towards heavyweight, massive women, that creates a sort of balance.  People Like Us have always liked it and always will, but that contest direction has made the idea of muscle on women more appealing, to, well, women. I'd personally take 40/100 women with noticeable muscle on their bodies over 15/100 women built like brick shithouses.

And wow OMFG the comment about standing in line with WPW or M&F mags in the 90's. If you didn't have to live through that as a teenager, you are lucky.

Not that many people know I like muscle on women. Every woman I've ever dated has known, though. Part due to being picky and part due to luck, I've managed to date a string of ladies who exercise at least 2-3 times a week, several of which have had no problem showing off their effort. 
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: fredzeppelin on March 08, 2017, 10:31:35 pm
The thing is about buying a WPW from some newstand in the 80s/90s is that often times the
merchant saw WAY worse than that. The store I used to buy WPW from in Washington DC (where
I grew up) was in a suburb called Falls Church. That place used to sell the most vile porno on the face
of the planet -- everything from chicks with gerbils, to all the gay bullshit. The old Indian lady I used
to buy my WPW mags didn't bat an eyelid -- heck I was one of her more squeaky clean clients. At least
the chicks in WPW had their bikini tops on, and weren't cavorting with furry rodents.

WPW wasn't really a problem. It was buying the more conventional bb mags like Flex or MuscleMag
(which on occasion you would because they would have some pictorial of Lenda Murray lying naked on a couch
in her musclebound glory) where thing would get awkward (because people might conclude that you were
queer). 
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: 87fg on March 09, 2017, 07:12:13 pm
I believe that when you say “I love muscular woman”, this mean different kinds of attractions. Just read posts here : even among female muscle lovers, you have different tastes in muscle mass, feminity, shape, definition or relationship, those who like being dominated often don’t understand those looking for gfe. Generally, it’s more or less easy to talk about your preferences in public, depending on whether they are shared by more or fewer people. I feel comfortable with saying that I find women athletes muscles sexy, not that I’d like to suck Ms Olympia’s two inches clit !
It’s the same about politics or art, generally you talk with people you understand. You wouldn’t confess that you like bullfights to anybody. Fbb is more sensitive because it’s basically about sex, and it’s unusual to associate muscle and feminity. I don’t feel so and will tell the same than Davic C Matthews in an interview I read, I find sexy as well big tits and big biceps. But I will only tell this in private.

You are right about that it does come down to taste in muscularity level. Some like women with a good shape or a little bit of tone.Others like the middle range look which not large, but not small either. Then there are some that like the Ms. Olympia level size. If you are me you enjoy all different aesthetic forms. I think most of the people who come here at least, enjoy any level of muscle on a woman.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: qwerty42 on March 10, 2017, 06:34:38 pm
Its been a bit easier in recent times. I used to like chuna from wwf but a lot of friends would say that's gay. Since UFC has been popular and you se more strong women its not as taboo to say u like fitness looking women. I personally don't like the ott muscular look.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: wandering_flames on March 11, 2017, 01:22:31 am
I don't know, but  since I like regular girls too, I never had to say that I like FBB as well. I never got asked that question too.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: scheer on March 14, 2017, 10:56:12 am
Perhaps conformity is FBBs biggest enemy. I love them for what they are, because I am an avid non-conformist.

John F. Kennedy once said:- Conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth."

True.
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: Español on March 11, 2018, 02:58:17 pm
I don´t really care, but for most is as weird as telling other people you listen to Jazz, hahaha

(I´m being ironical, since I also like Jazz, hahah).
Title: Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
Post by: pakeha on April 03, 2018, 12:24:30 am
I guess my view on this topic has always been - what is there to be gained and what is there to be lost by telling anyone about my sexual proclivities?

My default answer over the years has been that I have nothing to gain and perhaps something to lose - so I've kept my deviant thoughts to myself :)

I did start to go down the road of telling one gf many years ago and she ridiculed me so needless to say I didn't divulge any more.

In terms of telling a family member, workmate or friend over a beer about my love of all things female muscle, I just can never see myself doing it. It's like I'm trying to 'win him over to my side' (!)... if he likes anorexic bimbos then so be it. I'm happy in my own little world of sexy muscle women...