it`s not a problem f at all for me to hide my extra- passion ....
I`m living in a long -term relationship since 18 years ,and at same time regulary frequenting sessions since 14 years
I`m not morally embarressed by that ,but would never admit it openly to my wife (she already suspects my passion
for muscular women,but doesn`t know of sessions :I pretend to go to a concert,an exposition or to have
abusiness meeting ,so that`s it !!....)
I think it`s not cheating ,because think it`s an other level of admiration ,there is the level of love in soul ,and other more physical attraction (and also several attraction for several for several body types ,no problem for me:)
-men often can split their inclinations in "drawers"..
so my wife is in fully contrast more the petite ,sweet type of woman
She is quite understanding ,for the sometimes a bit strange "special" inclinations of some men
(she is pychologist ...)
and think that our relation would survive a "coming out" !??...