It's interesting to see this discussion come back to life, with a wide range of opinions. 


I agree with Prophanti in that any degree of sessioning that your significant other deems cheating is cheating, whether you're dating her, living together in a committed relationship, married or any other arrangement. 


Some SOs will consider simply looking at photos or chatting/webcamming with another woman to be cheating.  Others who understand your appreciation or fetish for muscular women (or strong women or fill in the blank...) might be supportive or at the very least accepting of you engaging in some behaviors around sessioning.  Some might be ok, even give you their blessing to session for muscle worship that doesn't involve you touching the other woman, or happy endings or any other sexual things she does to you.  Some might be ok with a happy ending but not full sexual activity.  Some may sit on either side of the nudity vs clothed discussion. 


I guess keeping it a secret is one way to avoid having it declared as cheating by your SO, even if you consider it cheating and are OK with it that way yourself.


Every woman and every situation is unique.  Definitely something to proceed with caution about.  I'm not even sure what my answer would be.

I have turned down hj for example. If the woman is stronger than me,  as most are (lol) I make it very clear from the begging that I don't want to be "forced". Because of this I won't see some providers where I think I couldn't impose limits on what happens.

Who are these providers who ignore not just a playful No, but a genuinely serious No!
Or is just their strength that makes you nervous, not their reputation?

I have turned down hj for example. If the woman is stronger than me,  as most are (lol) I make it very clear from the begging that I don't want to be "forced". Because of this I won't see some providers where I think I couldn't impose limits on what happens.

Who are these providers who ignore not just a playful No, but a genuinely serious No!
Or is just their strength that makes you nervous, not their reputation?

Yeah I’m confused. The last woman I saw had an ass obsession and wanted to peg me and was strong enough and sexual enough to force me into doing it and I don’t want to and she was cool.

I have turned down hj for example. If the woman is stronger than me,  as most are (lol) I make it very clear from the begging that I don't want to be "forced". Because of this I won't see some providers where I think I couldn't impose limits on what happens.

Who are these providers who ignore not just a playful No, but a genuinely serious No!
Or is just their strength that makes you nervous, not their reputation?

Yeah I’m confused. The last woman I saw had an ass obsession and wanted to peg me and was strong enough and sexual enough to force me into doing it and I don’t want to and she was cool.

If you don't reveal the ID, then Vas will be very sad and moribund . . . come to think of it, so will I. 

My DMs are open lol

Yeah, not saying it happens, just that I'd be afraid with some for sure! Ahah

I have turned down hj for example. If the woman is stronger than me,  as most are (lol) I make it very clear from the begging that I don't want to be "forced". Because of this I won't see some providers where I think I couldn't impose limits on what happens.

Who are these providers who ignore not just a playful No, but a genuinely serious No!
Or is just their strength that makes you nervous, not their reputation?

Yeah I’m confused. The last woman I saw had an ass obsession and wanted to peg me and was strong enough and sexual enough to force me into doing it and I don’t want to and she was cool.

Pretty sure that would be rape. I've been doing sessions for decades (although not many lately unfortunately) and I've never come close to something like that happening, nor have I heard of it happening in anything other than fan fiction. These women are pros and if the word got out that a sessionette was going to peg you no matter what, that would limit her clientele.

 I've not done that so far but I thought about it. But cause I would make a secret of meeting another girl that satisfies my fetish demands is pretty sketchy. On the one hand there is only a woman l&c me around (no kissing, no sex etc.). On the other hand it's pretty obvious that it arouses me and that this is the reason I set up session.
I thought about to tell my gf about my fetish so she does do that for me. But tbh I feel like this not the same if you don't have a girl like that by your side.
In the end I feel like this is wrong and I won't do it until I'm single again. I think the feelings of guilt could be too hard to handle.