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Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
« Reply #15 on: January 27, 2017, 06:29:59 pm »
I am 42, be thankful if you are way younger you didnt have to stand in a newsagent with a female BB magazine in the 90's cos you couldnt get your fix anywhere else and get weird looks from the newsagent and the person behind you, that was really confronting lol.

It is amazing that we went from that to daily updates of fbb material on the net (from videos to artwork) in a
span of 20 years. 

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Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
« Reply #16 on: February 02, 2017, 09:56:59 am »
I wish I could say I am cool with everyone knowing that I like it but my experience has been somewhat negative. One of my best (non sexual anymore) friends is a woman who was always muscular and got way bigger after we stopped hooking up. She got the standard negative comments "she looks like a man" (she is still drop dead gorgeous...) and when I defended her I got called many of the names in the book (gay etc...) I fought back. Now there are two other women in my life who have competed in IFBB contests (which is way further than my ex) and I am sort of hesitant to say that I am proud of them and how beautiful I think they are. I will stand up for them, but it is hard. It irritates me far more that people judge you for liking muscular women than that they just know. Done bearing soul....

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Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
« Reply #17 on: February 02, 2017, 04:03:37 pm »
It makes me angry to hear about all the guys who have been called,"gay," by idiots when they profess that they like muscular women. I dealt with that too. Why would we be gay ? Not "Gay" as in happy but "Gay" as in craving a man's dick? Makes no sense.

Now I've been married to a bodybuilder for years and NO ONE says that to me. Behind my back, I know people whisper, but it's only behind my back. I train too  and most people are reluctant to take a chance saying anything negative, nevermind insulting me to my face. Last fall, at a neighbor's  party, a visiting friend of theirs was gawking and talking to another neighbor of mine about how huge my wife was. He didn't realize I was behind him nearby. Instead of being a jerk, I listened, rather than try to surprise him and suppress the conversation. Really... he was a slight guy and my wife weighed about as much as he did. With her tank top on, her muscle and vascularity were very apparent to everyone and I could see how he might have been feeling inadequate. At this party were a number of fireman, policeman, myself and other guys too who were all way more fit than he was, which I think added to his feelings of"smallness". His wife was actually talking to my wife about working out and I think the admiration she was showing her at  that moment also bothered him. The slight guy was saying something like,'"She has so much muscle, how could any man like that," when my neighbor who was with him realized I was nearby and she tried to change the subject. She looked panicked when she looked at me and she said,'Well, to each his own. Hi!"

I smiled wide and said,"Hi! Yea! To each his own!"  Then he saw me and turned red, and realized I might have heard him. I could tell he was a intimidated and worried what was going to happen next . I wasn't going to be a stereotypical meathead and say something like,"Are you talking about my wife?"   Stupid.

I let it ride. I just said,"T is pretty solid, isn't she?"  "She's never short of new fans - like your wife! (who was laughing with my wife.)" Anyways, I let it go.

I think people don't know how to react. I think a lot of guys don't like muscular women - they just don't. That's OK. I think, though, that many find themsleves getting turned on and don't completely understand why. Then I think they worry about why they feel that way, and coupled with self-doubt about their own masculinity suddenly contrasted by a muscular woman, these guys tend  immediately 'project'.   It think there is latent fear to confront a muscular woman but it's easier to accuse guys like us, who are with them, that we must be abnormal or gay.  Does that make sense?

I've never heard haters say anything to women (muscular). They won't say anything to another male bodybuilder either...but to a normal guy they'll look for "validation" to remove feelings of their own inadequacy and that includes putting down guys who like muscularity on women as gay or perverted.

My wish is that more guys be honest and not be as worried about what people think of our tastes. I think it diminishes the wrong notions about us and supports the women who train hard. Good thread.

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Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
« Reply #18 on: February 02, 2017, 04:39:39 pm »
For me, it is trying to understand it.  It's one thing to find a woman attractive.  I see a lot of attractive women.  But I am not aroused by them.  I am aroused just by looking at a muscular woman and I don't really understand why.  Now, some may say "why ask why?  It's simply the way you are wired." Perhaps I will never find a reason why.  But it does make me uncomfortable at times. 

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Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
« Reply #19 on: February 02, 2017, 04:45:20 pm »
It did bother me at one point a long time ago. But then I decided to grow the heck up and accept the fact that I like muscular women and it makes me happy. What really got me to wake up is seeing some of my female college friends hit the weights and hit them hard. It made the acceptance that much better and I'm able to talk to them more about the female muscle world. I can't say the same for a lot of my family, though, but that's okay. I can live with that. They still love me regardless, and I still love them.
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« Reply #20 on: February 02, 2017, 11:51:29 pm »
Only to the extent people think its a fetish in which case you wouldnt want anyone to know about your sexytime habits.

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Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
« Reply #21 on: February 03, 2017, 06:37:43 am »
Topdogg17,  were your female college friends athletes or just wanted to build muscle? I wonder what reaction they got from other people and what they thought about it.

People have their own preferences and it is a blessing to find other people who share the same preferences and can have a good conversation about it. If you are still in touch with them, do they still continue to lift weights?

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Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
« Reply #22 on: February 03, 2017, 06:50:08 am »
Topdogg17,  were your female college friends athletes or just wanted to build muscle? I wonder what reaction they got from other people and what they thought about it.

People have their own preferences and it is a blessing to find other people who share the same preferences and can have a good conversation about it. If you are still in touch with them, do they still continue to lift weights?

They were college friends and all of them just happened to like lifting. In fact, I have a couple of friends who during college didn't even like looking at weights, but since they graduated and started their own careers, they got bitten by the fitness bug and can't get enough of working out. One of those ladies that was afraid of lifting back in the day...is now a personal trainer. :) Again, family seems to be the only ones that I haven't flat out come out to about liking fit women, but seeing friends from college and high school has made me feel far less of a weirdo as I can actually communicate with them on this without feeling weird about it.

To answer your question about still keeping in touch with them, yes, I still do that. In fact, the muscle world has actually made my connections with many of them stronger (no pun intended). ;)
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Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
« Reply #23 on: February 03, 2017, 09:42:56 am »
Thanks for sharing your story. You are blessed to have many friends who are into lifting and who you can open up to about your interest. I have a few more questions out of curiosity. I am trying to understand girls who like to lift and unfortunately I do not have many of them in my circle of friends.

1) How would you describe their appearance? I am particularly curious about how their arms look when flexed and unflexed (e.g. slim arms unflexed but high biceps peak that look like a baseball when flexed).
2) Do they like to show their muscles to people in public or only do so in private?
3) Do they like lifting for general health and fitness, want to be strong, and/or because they like the look of having muscles?

By the way, I gave you good karma for your previous posts. :-)

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Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
« Reply #24 on: February 04, 2017, 06:29:13 am »
Thanks for sharing your story. You are blessed to have many friends who are into lifting and who you can open up to about your interest. I have a few more questions out of curiosity. I am trying to understand girls who like to lift and unfortunately I do not have many of them in my circle of friends.

1) How would you describe their appearance? I am particularly curious about how their arms look when flexed and unflexed (e.g. slim arms unflexed but high biceps peak that look like a baseball when flexed).
2) Do they like to show their muscles to people in public or only do so in private?
3) Do they like lifting for general health and fitness, want to be strong, and/or because they like the look of having muscles?

By the way, I gave you good karma for your previous posts. :-)

Thank you for the karma! :) My posts here are nowhere near as good as others who have posted earlier, but I appreciate the love all the same.

I'll answer all of your questions in order

1) By appearance, while they are not bodybuiler-esuqe, they definitely stand out from other women I know. They looked toned and don't mind wearing clothes that bring out their physiques more.
2) I answered that with the first one. ;)
3) They lift for all of the reasons you mentioned.

To me, it's just one of those things you just can't force a woman to like. They need to discover it for themselves. If they love it, that's awesome! If not, that's fine, too. If you want to bring it up to a woman, ease into it, don't go balls out right away. That's asking to be shut off.

Again, thank you for the reply to my stories, and you get karma as well. :)
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Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
« Reply #25 on: February 05, 2017, 07:18:38 pm »
I wish I could say I am cool with everyone knowing that I like it but my experience has been somewhat negative. One of my best (non sexual anymore) friends is a woman who was always muscular and got way bigger after we stopped hooking up. She got the standard negative comments "she looks like a man" (she is still drop dead gorgeous...) and when I defended her I got called many of the names in the book (gay etc...) I fought back. Now there are two other women in my life who have competed in IFBB contests (which is way further than my ex) and I am sort of hesitant to say that I am proud of them and how beautiful I think they are. I will stand up for them, but it is hard. It irritates me far more that people judge you for liking muscular women than that they just know. Done bearing soul....

K, brother.  I appreciate it.  I feel that same way. 

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Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
« Reply #26 on: February 05, 2017, 07:21:27 pm »
??? must admit ,that I´M not very confident on this subject,because in my environment it`s not at all
accepted- many people think it`s perverted ! , much less then being gay I`d say  ... perhaps you call it "the new
gay" 
think I am quite a bit ashamed when being "caught" , so for example, when my computer needs an ID specialist to resolve a malfunction
I`m a bit in discomfort

Thanks for being open about it.  One thing I can say about this forum is that it does provide a place to release that tension with others who feel the same way.  I think it goes without saying that we who admire muscular women are looked at as weird.  And that is compounded when you are married!  Thanks for the thread. 

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Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
« Reply #27 on: February 10, 2017, 09:14:52 pm »
No, i like the stronger women, i don't believe in having to go along with one way of thinking over another, cultural differences which i enjoy when travelling

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Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
« Reply #28 on: February 25, 2017, 01:10:36 pm »
I wouldnt tell anyone im into fbb / amazon women.

They wouldnt get it. I stil think its a light taboo for sime reason.

However, more & more women are into abs / toning up for sure. Well over here anyway.
Living in ireland - looking for fbb / athletes for friendly sessions :)

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Re: Does it bother you if other people know that you like muscular women?
« Reply #29 on: February 25, 2017, 01:21:19 pm »
I dont think it is so much a taboo as that the people who are not into it feel free to hold that against somebody because they can. Also not everybody is into female bodybuilders the same way. Some men just like the bodytype but are otherwise pretty mainstream when it comes to women. Others like the idea of a woman stronger and bigger than they are or at least as strong.

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