I think with guys there is a big taboo with this issue. Most guys feel that it might be a gay issue or being a closet gay. But it isn't, if it's being performed by female , you are not gay. It is a power exchange. It's not for all men. Never be ignorant or judgemental if males do enjoy it. It's a fetish for some couples. Nothing wrong with it as it is probably one of the most popular types of clips being sold these days. Again it has to be at your own comfort level and it might or might not be for you. Do the research and you will be surprised how many men enjoy it with their wife, girlfriend, etc