I met a woman through role play in the 1980s who I eventually had a long term relationship with. It sounds like an exaggeration but she was about 5' 10" (in heels 6' 1") around 165 or 170 pounds and had a figure like Anita Ekberg or Jayne Mansfield. She was more than an a blonde bombshell - she had strong shoulders, legs like a swimmer and was physically active but NOT a bodybuilder. She was a true Amazon.
She worked was a designer, as well as a model, masseuse and did fetish/domination sessions on the side. Gayle (not her real name) was the first woman I ever met who said she did "wrestling sessions" with men. This was years and years before I ever saw wb270.com or knew of the fetish. Gayle did some wrestling videos, which I saw years later online, and she was picking up and throwing around guys who were at least 200 pounds or so.
After having two sessions with her (we never wrestled) something clicked and we began dating which was tough because we lived hundreds of miles from each other. In our first meeting at her hotel room we spoke briefly about the role play session. I was stunned by her beauty and almost couldn't speak. She had me sit down on a lounge chair and Gayle was on the ottoman in front of me. The hotel phone rang when I was describing the scene. She immediately said, "Don't move!" put her hand on my chest, and reached over to answer the phone. (It was a friend from home.) I'm a big guy - 6' 1", athletic and about 225 pounds or so back then - but when she put her strong, manicured hand on my chest I didn't dare move. I could feel her strength. I said something to myself like, "What the hell have I got myself into?"
She quickly got off the phone, seduced me with her smile (and a pink one piece bathing suit a la "Baywatch") and said, "Where were we?" The session was incredible.
Gayle was a sweetheart but did have serious mood swings. For whatever reason, I always was able to calm her down. One time two young women cut in front of us on a long, long museum line and she went at it with the both of them, verbally. When I thought it was about to get physical I grabbed her around the waist with all my strength and was just able to stop her. Other people behind us complained about the two women and security escorted them to the back of the line. After that she immediately grinned, kissed me and said, "See? They got what they deserved." If I didn't hold onto her for dear life I still think one or both of them would have wound up in the hospital.
One last story of her strength that her younger sister told me. The sister was in a lousy marriage and her husband Al was verbally abusive. One time he went over the line. The sister wound up in the hospital with a broken arm or wrist. She told the family and Gayle that she "fell down." Gayle didn't buy it and immediately went to the hospital. The husband, all 5' 7" of him, wearing glasses and talking crap to his wife, was there with a nurse. He was trying to get her out of the hospital to take are of their kids... immediately. She needed to stay overnight. When he saw Gayle - they never did get along since this guy made plenty of moves to get into bed with but she rejected him - began to talk trash about her. Gayle said to Al with a smile, "It's always a pleasure to see you," and then got serious, "Did you hit my sister?" Al ran his mouth again and said, "What if I did? It's none of your damn business!"
Eventually Gayle sheepishly told me that she turned around and slapped Al so hard he hit the hospital wall and hit the ground, stunned. His glasses flew off, broke in half against another wall. Standing over him Gayle said, "That's what you get for hitting a woman!" Of course the sister got upset, the nurse quickly attended to Al and said to Gayle, "Get out of here or else the hospital will call the police." Soon afterward the couple got divorced and Al never pressed charges, either out of fear of his sister-in-law or the fact that the nurse was willing to say he all but admitted he hit his wife.
We split up a long time ago. (Too long to get into here.) Gayle was an earth mother, as well as a force of nature, who made heads turn whenever she entered a room. Of course it was due to her beauty, but I think many could sense her physical strength, intelligence and great sense of humor.